drug, high friends!?

Question

I have 2 bestfriends both do drugs!! Thanks to lynn's sister and boyfriend lynn my bf started doing weed. thats not the worst part alicia (bf) started doing weed b/c lynn was doing it! a few weeks back me and alicia didnt talk to lynn so we made fun of her and talked about her. then the question came up in my head and i asked alicia if she still did weed and she said no so i was happy but then just a few days both of them started asking me to do weed! i dont want to! i dont even wanna smoke! i told them when their doing that just to give me a beer! i was rasied differently i've seen my uncles died cuz of smokeing and beer! and i want to live a long happy life! yeah i know u dont die from one smoke or weed but i dont wanna be addicted! so you get the picture, i want them to stop i told them how they might end up but they just dont listen and no i cant stop being their friends we've been together soo long! what should i do i really want to get this in their heads! plz help

Answer 1

NO!! Do not start smoking weed.I began smoking the stuff when I was 14 and it has done nothing but cause chaos in my life. It is a pathway drug that can and will lead you to try other bad things. I started out with smoking weed then it turned into growing weed which eventually lead me right strait to jail. There are only three places that drugs will lead you and they are jails, institutions and death.Weed started me on a long drawn out self destructive path. I never thought weed would eventually bring me face to face with evil in the purest form which is meth. So if your friends are trying to pressure you into trying weed. Who's to say later they wont try to get you to try something else. If your friends cant accept that you have strong personal convictions and don't want to compromise your mind, future and life then you don't need them. Be your own person. Sometimes that means that you will have to walk a different path than that of your friends and sometimes that is the better thing to do. Don't ever let some one talk you into doing something that you know is wrong. Good luck to you and I hope you'll make a better decision than I did.

Answer 2

well cudos to the other ans.. But weed doesn't kill you... life does.. GATEWAY DRUG ha,ha,ha get real.. If you don't want to smoke weed with your friend that's OK,, but to sit there and drink a beer and worry about them is kinda hypocritical don't you think.. when alcohol is the #1 killer on highway, #1 reason for domestic violence #1 cause of abuse in homes and so on and so on.. Just continue to be there friend and be there for them.. telling on them is just going to make them rebel more.. Tell them your not interested in it and to respect that..we all make are choices and it don't mean there going to grow it or do other drugs. there plenty of people who have never touched pot and do coca,meth,heroin,pills and many other things,, gateway drug thing is crap.

Answer 3

I think your friends are going to experiment a little bit, then when the newness of it all wears off, and it's just another day, they will quit, if that's what they want to do. If not, they will join other groups, that enjoy their lifestyle, so you won't have to drop them as friends, they will do that for you.

Answer 4

Your a great friend because your concerned. Honestly something has to scare the living crap out of them. Talking to them obviously hasnt worked. Tell their parents whats going on but call anonamously (not knowing its you) dont mention anything about it anymore. Pray for them dude... and im proud of you for not doing that crap.. you gotta good heart and soul.

Answer 5

If they're such good friends, then why are you telling all of us on Yahoo rather than the two of them. Talk to them about it. If they're not your friends anymore, then they never were. Good for you for not wanting to be a follower!