its cool to have someone to love, but when you want to be intimate, how is it in any way pleasurable? i know its cool to emotionally connect to the same sex, but when it comes to the point where you want to get married, i see no way how it could work out.... intimately. you see what im saying?
2007-03-25 14:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all, we're not "being" gay. We ARE gay, just like you ARE straight. You're not "being" straight.
It's perfectly possible to be intimate with someone of the same sex . . . I'm not going to bother going into details for fear of having my acct deleted for adult content, but let's just say the only difference is you have to be a little more creative.
2007-03-25 14:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by living_in_a_bell_jar 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way, a gay person might ask you the same question. What do you get out of being attracted to someone of a different sex.?
Just because in straight sex all the pieces fit together does mean it is going to be pleasurable to all of us.
2007-03-25 21:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Intimacy isn't just a sexual relationship. Yes that can be part of it, and a wonderful part of it. A relationship is made up of so many different elements such as chemistry, love, trust, openess, understanding, desire... that is how it works. As far as the bedroom goes, being with a woman for me is more intimate than being with a man. All of the elements are involved including pleasure!
2007-03-26 01:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Colocha 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont really understand your question...why couldn't getting married work out between two people of the same sex? its the same thing as between two people of the opposite sex - in both situations, it is an act of love...why do people seem to think its that big of a difference? the only way it wouldn't work out as well between a same sex couple is that the government prevents them from having equal rights... if we did have the rights...everything would be perfect.
2007-03-25 21:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, It is so beatifull being able to LOVE some-1 in the way we do, and let me tell you, We (couples) have problems like straight people does.
Second, Sex.... Let me tell you again, is great! and dont let me get in details.
Three, We are so busy living and discovering our extended lifestyle, to care about how straight people goes thru the centuries and dont know how to live in peace as we do in our community! so, peace out Pretty!
2007-03-25 22:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Hey Guyz! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't see what you are saying. I'm gay and have been married for 20 years. Where exactly to my ilk fit into your equation for happiness?
2007-03-25 22:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about straight people. YOU make no sense and keep breeding for the hell of it. Have you no control?
2007-03-25 21:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the guys, but if a lesbian can convert a straight woman, the lesbian gets a free toaster oven!
Wooooo-Hoooooo!!!!
2007-03-26 07:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, ask a gay person. You have heard what they do. Anal sex, or strap-ons for girls. It works even if you don't understand it.
2007-03-25 21:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't see what you're saying. Why not come right out and say what you're trying to say.
2007-03-26 15:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋