hey, im curious... once your a cheater... are you always gonna be a cheater? personal experience would help me understand.. is there anyone who was a cheater but now any more? is there hope for a cheater to not cheat again?
2007-03-25 14:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i meant not instead of now
2007-03-25 14:23:46 · update #1
It's possible that a cheater can learn from their mistakes and reform themselves. It isn't common, though.
If you are the person cheated on, you have to ask yourself whether you want to live with the knowledge that this person has cheated on you before, never knowing for sure that it won't happen again.
If you've been cheated on, even if the cheater does reform themselves, will you ever be able to put it in the past, or will the cheating that's already happened haunt you forever.
2007-03-25 14:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Phaedrus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME!!! I think if you are in the same relationship then once a cheater always a cheater. But after you lose a few people and mature I think you can truly became a good person. I have cheated in the past, but felt so bad. I have asked for forgiveness and I know I wouldn't do those things ever again!
2007-03-25 14:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would agree that once you're a cheater you might always be one, but that might not be the case all the time. Yes it is difficult to trust someone after they cheat on you, and its reasonable but, sometimes people completely change themselves if they really love someone, and will therefore stop cheating.
check out maury though, 99% of the people on that show that were cheaters still are
2007-03-25 14:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Katdabrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do believe that once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. He might stop for a while...But in the end we just become more of who we really are. So i don't think its possible for him to change.
2007-03-25 14:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by PinkDiamond♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it right--once a cheater, always a cheater no matter what.
2007-03-25 14:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it could be yes and no.
2007-03-25 14:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definately!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The same goes for an abuser!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-03-25 15:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.. No... No...
2007-03-25 14:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋