2007-03-25 14:20:09 · 8 answers · asked by fashionista4HIM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is pretty, smart, talented, and funny. I'm pretty (or so I've been told, idk though), smart, and quiet. We have the same taste in guys and in everything really. But the guys always tend to gravitate toward her.
2007-03-25 14:25:13 · update #1
I've had that experience and it is quite bothering! I understand where you are coming at and sometimes I was afraid of being claimed I was jealous of my best friend. People always think you shouldn't be jealous of your best friend but I'm pretty sure your best friend is jealous of somethings about you too.
But in this case she gets all the guys...
Don't worry about it, because most likely the boys are just missing the real part of you and maybe just going for looks (if you're friend is complete gorgeous!) But, you are complete gorgeous too, I know it.. don't be upset.. the boys are just being silly and blind and missing the true beauty of you. And sometimes it's great when boys aren't all over you, because when the right man comes for you there won't be any problems of your man having to fight those guys away from you. Or the true dilemma that you MIGHT fall for a different guy and get completely confused.. it's best you wait for the right man to come and just be happy that in everyway you're just committed to HIM. Good Luck. =) <3
2007-03-25 14:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol..I'm exactly the same, but now I'm engaged with my boyfriend. Believe me, I too had the same dilimna. My best friend is smart , extremely funny, athletic,popular, and she has a great personality. She always got the attention from just about every guy in high school, I was always ignored, but then I realized it wasn't the guys, it was always me, I tried to act like I was someone that I wasn't, I tried to act like her. Once I began to realize this I loved myself and then slowly, but surely the guys started to give me some attention. So long story short just love yourself and have some confidence within yourself, I'm sure every guy will be lined up for you.
2007-03-25 15:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't always hang out with her. Find other friends and then maybe you'll meet boys. Clearly hanging out with her is damaging your confidence in yourself, anyway. Realize she has her own problems and isn't perfect. I'm sure you look fine and are a great catch. Just get out there and show the guys. Minimize the competition and you'll come into your own. Good luck :)
2007-03-25 14:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend also get more attention then me until i learn how to speak up. Dont let them also get the shine, think of a question to ask like when your brithday and let the conversation grow from there most likely he would continue it.
2007-03-25 14:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by find happiness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur trying to pick up a guy go with a gor who you look better than and have your best friend bring a guy to hang all over her youll get picked up in an instant
2007-03-25 14:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by skitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress in clothing that fits, smell nice, feel good about who you are.
Ask for their attention: talk to them, be a LITTLE flirtacious, show them you have something to offer, be it personality or body. don't drink too much.
2007-03-25 14:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by makospawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guys that she rejects.
2007-03-25 14:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
See if she'll fix you up so you can double with her and her boyfriend.
2007-03-25 17:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋