My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. He has lied to me about watching porn over the internet. I told him how it makes me feel. He says he will not do it again and he always does. He was playing second life over the internet where you can create your character and do whatever you want in the game. This includes having sex with other characters if you wish who are controlled by other people playing the game. In his friends list he has mostly girls. One of the girls pictures in her profile she is topless. He denies that he does anything other than playing poker, but my son seen him dancing with a girl on the game at a party. I feel like he is there for the same reasons he views porn. Should I trust him? After all he constantly lies to me about his activity online. I am a computer science major and Know how to view a lot of activity on my computer. The places he goes offends me yet he still does it after he says he will stop.Could this lead to him cheating?
2007-03-25 14:11:52 · 12 answers · asked by lslbyd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would conside that cheating myself cheating is not just having sex it could be anything that crosses a line if he contimues to disrespect your wishes then throw him out
2007-03-25 15:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you are way to controlling and uptight, damn can that man enjoy a little fun online. From your question i can only guess all the rules and restrictions in your bed room. most guys view porn as a release not a means to cheat, and if he is looking at it maybe you should see just what he is looking at and try to bring some of that to you own bedroom, that will stop him from looking at porn so much. If you want his sexual desires on you then take some action, and i don't mean nagging him about porn. NEWS Flash Ladies, men like porn, it is a 9 billion dollar industry for a reason.
2007-03-25 15:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you're this insecure about some fantasy thing, why have relationships? You're bound to drive yourself NUTS! Don't have relationships, just have fun and no attachments. Save yourself the grief!
2007-03-25 14:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to trust him. He's already cheating. And his word means nothing. There is no respect in your relationship. Without that, you have no relationship. PLEASE move on. Being a strong independent person is a million times better than being with one who has no moral value.
2007-03-25 14:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think ur exagerating, wuts wrong with him watching porn everyman likes it infact i myself love it (im a gurl) n im perfectly fine if my bf does it too he has even showed me covers of the movies he watches n sometims lets me borrow some
2007-03-25 14:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install netdog porn filter : http://www.netdogsoft.com
it will block all porn quitely in the background when your boyfriend's on the computer
2007-03-25 17:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by beyondhelper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could but the fact that he lies is something to be concerned about.
2007-03-25 14:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN WATCH PORN as along has he is not doing it in front you its fine
2007-03-25 14:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Please leave while u are not yet married and then in this kind of mess. Believe me all this never ends. Its kind of addiction and cheap thrill.
2007-03-25 14:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for goodness sake - its a game......
he isnt doing anything in person........
it is technology - after all you are a science major in computers
get over it - its petty
2007-03-25 14:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋