ok well i have been dating this guy for 3 years off and on, and we are happy most of the time, but we argue sometimes. and he doesnt really talk to me or let me know how he's feeling. but anyway, he hung out with my bestfriend a few weeks ago, who is a girl. and then he broke up with me the next day and didnt tell me that he had feelings for her. but i later found out that he has feelings for her. they have been friends for a couple years since her ex is my ex's best friend. but they have been hanging out lately and cuddling and everything like that. i dont know if they have done anything physical yet, he wants to still be my friend and talk to me, and i still love him a lot and i want to be with him. should i wait and see if things end up working between us again, or just let go and move on?
2007-03-25 13:28:33 · 15 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should forget about him and punch your "so-called" best friend in the face...
2007-03-25 13:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by smelly belly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go becaus ethat was wrong. Tell your best friend that you think it is wrong too. She should never have donne that to you. There is a code betweeen friends and she has crossed that. If she stays with him than end that friendship. Also tell her you want answers and honest answers and ask all you need for your own closure. Find out why it happened perhaps she has lied about you or something so you should talk to him also. Good luck I just wanted to add that if you want to work it out let him know y=to be honest and he needs to chose now. Though I do not reccomend it.
2007-03-25 13:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by SADGIRLOH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let go and move on. If he has feelings for the girl and they are seeing each other, the question is How Long Has this been going on, and if you get an honest answer out of him I will really be surprised. So move on, let him go, I am sure you will find someone else that will treat you better.
2007-03-25 13:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nan of Many 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that you are in such a difficult position right now. But my advice is to stay away from them as much as possible so you can heal. If what you had with him is true love, you will find each other again and work things out. But for now, the best thing is for you to have a little pride and let them be. You will hurt if you stick around to see their relationship evolve right in front of your eyes. It will be difficult to let go right now, but you will thank me later...trust me, Ive been there! Good luck
2007-03-25 13:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult your best friend over your feelings and if she's not willing to see him for the player he is, then let them both go. He's a jerk willing to break up a friendship and is obviously not wanting more than an acquaintance type relationship with you. And your best friend will soon realize what he is and she'll come begging you for forgiveness and you can move on after it sharing he's an a$$ stories.
2007-03-25 13:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by nancydeanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are things aren't gonna work out. So my best advice would be just to move on I mean you can do better. I'm sure you'll find the right guy for you. Good luck and hope my advice helps.
2007-03-25 13:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Carmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on honey... He obviously is confused about your relationship. If he doesn't "talk" or confide in you, he really isn't all you think he is. He left you for your best friend, not a guy I'd like to trust!
Make a new start and good luck.
2007-03-25 13:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sam h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to let go and move on!! you don't want seconds , do you? and in anytime a guy doesn't express his feelings is because he wants out and doesn't know how to tell you....so, move on and wait for that someone that will have respect for you and what ever you do DON'T go back to this guy ...it's not worth it...good luck to you
2007-03-25 13:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go, honey. For good. Being "friends" with him will just make you miserable. As for your "bestfriend" - let go of her, too. She just proved to you that she doesn't care about your feelings - she is more concerned with her own. It's hard to do - but think about what's best for you - cause they obviously don't care.
2007-03-25 13:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by ScarlettBegonias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to mess with people like that... I suggest that you just move on... You know the saying.. If you love someone set them free if it is ment to be it will come back to you... If not at least you are not pine-ing away getting all frustrated... Live your life and move on...
2007-03-25 13:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick them both to the curb,all this is going to cause you is pain and neither of them are your friend or they would not have done this to you. Move on!
2007-03-25 13:33:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋