i have a cuzin her name is crystal and she's very much in love wit her boyfriend they been 2gether for 2 months and he loves her very much....and she wants 2 propose 2 him do u think it's 2 soon........she doesn't think so and either does he but do u think they should wait a while?
2007-03-25 13:18:41 · 13 answers · asked by seanpfan18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I thought that it wasn't too soon either and I wish that I had listened to others when they said I should have waited, etc. Now I am starting over and have the mark of a divorce in my heart. If they really love each other they can and will wait. I know when it feels right it is really hard to wait as you want to spend the rest of your life with that person and you want the rest of your life to start right now, but please please wait. There is a lot of maturity and exploration that must happen for a loving and lasting relationship.
2007-03-25 13:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by leo_leora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? That would be an important fact. 2 months is way to soon. True love will wait. It is too important of a decision to make so quickly. Love is much more than a feeling.
2007-03-25 13:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by mjohnson1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Ask her to describe how he interacts with others: 3 examples of his integrity, 3 examples of his flexibility, 3 examples of his self-discipline, 3 examples of his sense of humor, 3 examples of his generally positive attitude.
What's his mom's maiden name? Where did he grow up? Favorite color? How many days a week does he work out? What are his hobbies? What kind of friends does he have? What was the last book he read? Does he like children? How does he intereact with children and the elderly? Does he have road rage? Keep a tidy house?
2007-03-25 13:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i personally think it is too soon but it is up to him as long as he waits at least another year before actually marrying. Let them do what they want to do. It is their lives. They reallly need to make sure they know each other really well before marrying.
2007-03-25 13:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they should wait awhile. Bit of a strange question if he's just going to say no anyways!
2007-03-25 13:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Christopher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are really in love than go for it true love can't wait. but this could also be one of those cases where it seems like true love and they go for it and then they just break after like two weeks or so. so if it was up to me i would give it so more time.
2007-03-25 13:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kaylee Sue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes because it is marriages like theirs that will break soon because they don't know enough about one another. Say for them to live with one another and then look at marriage.
2007-03-25 13:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by Indira B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she should wait.. at least a year.. and what it with the women proposing to the man thing.. that is he job
2007-03-25 13:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they need to wait a while marriage is a life time commiment and not something to be rushed in to
2007-03-25 13:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they need to wait a little while so they can get to know each other a little more
2007-03-25 13:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by new life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋