I just found out my boyfriend is gay and married and he may be married to a man
what do yoy think i should do or say??
2007-03-25 13:05:40 · 11 answers · asked by bosschic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok, I talked to him tonight and he told me he has kids 11 and 14. it doesnt sound like he has kids. He was studdering and not sounding believable. Why would he ask and say "for Example what if I had sex with a guy?" Im like ok is he gonna come and tell me he is gay. He just went on to tell me he was married.
2007-03-25 16:14:24 · update #1
IF you wanna email me personally I will send the yahoo message me and him had
2007-03-25 16:17:57 · update #2
He is married then why are you still with him? it may hurt but it is a question you have to ask yourself!!
2007-03-25 13:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by jacks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! with all your might. What you have got there is the worst possible combination that ANY female can find in a man:
1. He is married. (It does not matter who his spouse is). No matter how well he treats you, it always sucks to be "the other woman".
2. He is sneaky enough to not tell you he was married. That makes him a married liar.
3. He is at least bi-sexual; or a gay man who is using you as an experiment to ascertain whether or not he could possibly be with a woman.
That you would even ask, suggests that you love him. My advice: buy a large tub of icecream, cry on the shoulder of a good friend, then wash your face, treat yourself to a shopping spree, and move on.
2007-03-25 13:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and talk with him. Ask him why he was dating you if he already had a relationship with a man? It may be that he is confused with his sexuality and is trying to sort it out. Of course, this is no way to do it by involving other people. If he is gay, hug him and tell him that you will always consider him a friend. He needs to go back to his partner and not date you anymore. Period.
2007-03-25 13:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and have a talk with him. Tell him how you feel, and find out the truth, and go from there. If he is married, I would let him go, because that is a situation you do not want to be involved in, trust me! It makes your life more complicated than it has to be.
good luck!
2007-03-25 13:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tapanga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are only a few states if any that reconize gay marriage.. if your a girl and his is your bf then he would be bi not gay.. i would just ask him.. tell him i heard the strangest thing to day .. and tell him what you heard and see what he says...have you been to his house . if so did you see any signs of this.. if not then maybe he is married to a man or women it dont really matter .. what dose matter is that he is married
2007-03-25 13:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he isnt your boyfriend maybe you should avoid his phone calls and just move on..you will get hurt. there is no book that tells you what to say he wasnt honest i would just look at him as a liar and forget the fact he is gay. gay or not he lied
2007-03-25 13:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by jerry w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right he is gay, next time get him pink Gatorade so he will be good.
2016-03-29 05:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm just dont talk to him he doesnt want u he sounds like a hewhore
2007-03-25 13:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um dump him and tell him you can't have both ways buddy. Just because he might be bi he can't be promiscuous. Wow, my condolences to you.
2007-03-25 13:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Indira B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tricky one
2007-03-25 13:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋