i'm having trouble telling my parents that im a lesbain. so how do i come out to my parents without hurting them?
2007-03-25 12:50:04 · 9 answers · asked by navy_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First ask them how they feel about lesbos.
2007-03-25 12:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What they don't know won't hurt them....Why do you have to tell them? just to let you know, No matter how you tell them they will be hurt, they may not show it or tell you but inside they will hurt but that doesn't mean they are going to stop loving you. If you feel like you have to tell them just sit them down and tell them how you feel, they can't be mad if you are real with them and slipping out your heart. Your their baby. But if you are in your teens please wait until you are a little older because parents don't think what teens say is real or serious, both you and your parents will have a better understanding when your older.
2007-03-25 13:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by explicate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your parents anti gay or for it
if they r anti gay explain to them in a good matter that your a lesbian and that it wasnt a choice
if they r for it tell them flat out
no matter what they will love u
2007-03-25 12:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ariellle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're in your teens, I suggest you wait till you're 21...then you can have an adult-to-adult talk with your parents.
2007-03-25 12:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them, they are your parents so they will still love you, of course at first it may shock them, but they will always love you...good luck
2007-03-25 12:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. your parents will love you no matter who you love!! good luck.
2007-03-25 12:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they love you it shouldn't hurt them. be honest with them
2007-03-25 12:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay, nothing to worry about, just let them know you just discover you're lesbian!
2007-03-25 12:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why tell if they wanna ask u?? be frank ok
2007-03-25 12:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋