so... first he married some lady, then he got divorced. Then, he married another lady and had two kids, but then got divorced. THEN, he married my mom and had me. While my mome was pregnant, he was having an affair!!! My mom found out (she saw them kissing) and decided to give him another chance, but he still presumed the affair. They got a divorce. And a month after they seperated, he married the women that he was having an affair with. He moved to MEXICO, not NEW MEXICO, MEXICO!!! So.. then i only saw him like once or twice a year. Then after about five years, he got another divorce. Now, he married some mexican chick thats 26! HE's 51!!! His oldest daughter is like 20 or something!!! so his new wife and his sister could be sisters!!! His new wife wants kids.... so now they're probablly getting a divorce soon and then he'll get married again.
SO WHAT ARE YOUR OPINIONS ON MY DAD??? IS THIS NORMAL OR... JUST TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK... PLEASE!!!
THANKS!
2007-03-25 12:49:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
sorry for asking this in the wrong section.... i just like the ppl who answer in here. Plz answer. thanks a lot!
2007-03-25 12:50:04 · update #1
ur dads a sl ut sorry some men are this way they are all about ur self my baby's father is this way if it was 0 degrees outside and my son and him needed a coat he'd buy himself one first
2007-03-25 12:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I'm the product of the same type of relationship. My grandfather started a babyt making "franchise" across the united states and I have tons of cousins, aunts and uncles everywhere. embrace the situation as you have a lot of relatives to create relationships with. Just a few years ago I went to Alabama for a reunion where I met a lot really cool extended family members for the first time. This is a bit sidetracked but I see it as a positive, you have dual citizenship(Mexico and the United States) and have the opportunity to obtain EU citizenship which is a great thing.
2007-03-25 20:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ultimately, it's his life and he has chosen to be the type of person that he is. So what if we say what he is doing is normal or not, the important thing is how you feel. What I've learned from my relationship with my father is that I can only change myself; I can't change him. I don't agree with what my father does in his life, and I know he does not want to change. I don't expect the things from our relationship that I once did. I let him live his life and I focus on my own. Basically my advise to you is to do what makes you happy and healthy, and to put energy into those relationships that make you truly happy.
2007-03-25 20:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by tr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my uncle has been married, like - 5 times. i know its stressful for his kids and i have 3 cousins i've never met. i come from a strong, wonderful family - but thats just him. he's been married to his current wife for a while and it seems to be really good - but i hear ya. it is kind of "mind-boggling" seeing the way they act. all-in-all there are probably some underlying issues we don't know about.
2007-03-25 19:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by shearlysouz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH!!!! is your dad desperate? its seems he's looking for the perfect person.. and about age diffenece on America's next top model Natashsa got married when she was like 16 to a 40 sumin year old..... thats a lil creepy...
2007-03-25 19:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by Corkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter what we think of your Dad but what you think. I Am so sorry that you have to only see your father just a few times a year,And that's just not fair to you.
Your father needs to learn to love himself before he can love someone else.
Normal though? No! Your dad needs to grow up and take responsibility !!
2007-03-25 19:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Marmar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. I'm sorry that your family is so messed up. But remember you are not your father and you wont make the sam wrong descisions. i don't want to be judgemental on your family but your dad needs some help. why do people keep marrying him? is he like supa rich? i'm really sorry. if it makes you feel better my fam. isn't perfect either. :/
2007-03-25 19:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure if this is normal...but you don't know what is going on in his head..or what his past was like...you only see a string of failed marriages..but to your dad it could be a whole different situation.
you mentioned that he has gotten divorced numerous times but you didn't mention why they got divorced
2007-03-25 19:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by melodydreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just sounds like he's never satisfied.The typical dead beat or something.I've only met my dad once when i was 6 or something.Now i talk to my brother(his son)and we laugh because he owes both our mothers thousands in child support and when my mom finds him he runs to virginia where my brother is.When his mom finds him he runs back 2 louisiana where i am.It cracks me up!
2007-03-25 19:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by freejluvlildee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that man hs some major problems, i feel sorry for every lady he has been with. no offence because hes ur dad but come on now u have to think that is a little rediclious....i feel bad 4 you, u should be able to see your dad.... he needs to be there for you , and iguess he doesnt care, so shame on him! but yes...he needs to find one p**sy and stay with it ,or turn gay!
2007-03-25 19:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋