so boy that you like and he like you back but your best friend don't like him at all.well they went out but then broke up and the boy like you. the boy and your best friend had a big agruement and they don't want to talk to each other again. your best friend said don't talk to him at all. but you can't help talk to the boy. you care about your best friend and respect them a lot. but the boy and you are about to go out. what are you suppose to do. and when she see you talking to the boy her feeling is hurt badly. you care about both of them
2007-03-25 12:47:22 · 6 answers · asked by Leeya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well if your best friends cant suppost you with your new love then they arnt really your friends are they?
2007-03-25 14:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by baby_gurlz136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to the best friend first. Tell her what is going on (not everything but that you and this guy have feelings for each other and that you wish to explore the options). Generally, for some reason, there is this rule that best friends don't date each other ex's, but love is not rational and therefore, we tend to be love's dog. So if you wish to be with him, and you feel it is worth it, then be with him, and explain this with your best friend.If she truly is your friend, she will understand and won't hold it against you. (remember, you didn't steal him away from her!)
SIDE NOTE: She might still have feelings for him, so make sure she doesn't before you jump on the ship!
Good luck to you!
2007-03-25 19:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tapanga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend and i have made a pact: no man shall stand between us. It's so easy to go out and find a new guy, they're like buses (absolutley everywhere!). Good friends are very difficult to find though. If you have a great long-term friendship with your friend, would you want to risk that with dating her ex? Alot of girls would also think dating a friend's ex as a big no-no as well.
2007-03-26 01:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by adnilebbeautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dosent matter if ur best friend doesent like ur new guy. the most important thing is u like him n he like u. juz ask urself who is goin thru the relationship? you or ur best friend? alwys trust urself n dun worry abt what others gonna say. follow ur heart
2007-03-25 19:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your willing to lose your best friend for a boy, then sure why not.
or you can talk to your friend about it & make your decision from there.
2007-03-25 19:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it comes to someone you like, no one should matter
2007-03-25 19:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋