why do men think we are thier slaves .....why do they always cheat....or say things that we wanna hear so they can get in our pants?
Whats the excuses boys?
2007-03-25 12:39:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not tarnish us all with the same brush. I am 36 yrs old, I have been with my partner for 16 yrs, a relationship is all about understanding, Give and take and sharing everything. I have never cheated on my wife I hold my wedding vows in high esteem. Then my wife dropped the bombshell on valentines day this year, that she no longer loved me and had fell in love with someone of Yahoo answers. My life as i Knew it was over asmy wife had always been my entire world. I cannot vouch for anybody but myself and my own morals and principles, but I would always treat a lady with the same respect that I would expect.
I hope that helps.
Jonny x
2007-03-28 03:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, this is in response to that other question about men... saw you got pretty worked up about that.
Bearing that in mind, I won't rise to the bait, but I would point out that it's far more common for women to treat men like slaves (ignored, taken for granted, bossed around) than the reverse. Also in my experience women are far more likely to cheat than men, but women are much better at rationalizing it.
Now the men are more likely to say things women want to hear (for the purpose of sex) than women are to men, so you've got me there. But then again, women don't have to 'game' or lie, all they have to say is 'come here'. Women (in general) can get sex anytime they want, so they don't have to learn this 'skill'.
Men aren't so bad. They're loyal and usually good hearted (even if we make a mess of things). And our best trait is that we don't hold grudges.
2007-03-25 19:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with women who meet one or two loser guys and then say all men are jerks?
Here's a hint: Go slow. Stop peeling off your panties for every guy who says "I like you." Sadly, don't believe everything you hear, especially early on. Assume pretty much everyone is as selfish as you are, or more so. Stop being a slave to some guy. You can only be his slave if you let him treat you like one. Find a new class of guys to hang out with. Lots of us don't want slaves. And we are willing to at least *wait* a few minutes before we see you slinking out of those panties. Sure it's a big part of what we are, but lots of us like to do other things with women - go to a concert, watch a film, ballet, opera, museum, beach, dinner, baseball game - all without explicitly talking about or mentioning sex. We *are* out there.
Maybe stop wearing a*ssless chaps, strolling into biker bars, bending over and hollering, "who wants a go - trade ya for a pitcher of bud?"
2007-03-25 20:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're putting men in one single category and that is very ignorant. I'm 37 and have never had a relationship. I'm not gay, either. I just didn't get into the dating habit.
Okay, so you caught your boyfriend with your best friend. That is your social circle. I'm guessing you're pretty young - maybe high school or college. That's what your lives are like at that age. It sounds like you're all in the same boat.
2007-03-25 19:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Cuz we can't imagine anything more thrilling than getting into your pants! However, REAL men give as good as they receive and don't treat women like slaves...sorry you've only met the scumsuckers so far!
2007-03-25 19:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you are a bitter man hater. Not all men are scum and in the end you teach a man how to treat you and if this is the type of man you attract then the answer is with you.
2007-03-26 00:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Miz Val 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with girls?
#1 why dont they do what we want them to do when we ask
#2 why are all girls sluts
#3 why do we have to say nice things just to get into there pants why cant they just let us when ever
OK I'm just kidding about #1 and #3 not #2
2007-03-25 19:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL I can see that you like to get revenge. You shouldn't let what Andrew said bother you if you know that it is not true.
He is comparing one bad apple with the rest of the bunch of apples.
2007-03-25 19:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you women mind f*ck us until we are shells of are former selfs. And leave us in a state of depression. I'm sick of women messing with my head. I get told they like me alot then I start getting interested and then they ignore me like I mean nothing. You can;t like someone then when he starts to like you back say hell with it.
2007-03-25 19:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like this.
2007-03-25 19:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Zabes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋