I'm 15 my name is Hillary and I have this friend named Nicolle. At least we used to be friends. That was until she started flirting with all the guys I like. I think she has started a rebellion against me using all her friends. Even the ones who don't live here anymore hate me because of all the crap Nicolle told them about me. Nicolle says I do the same thing (flirting with all the guys anyone else likes) but I freaking don't. It's not my fault I have so many guys after me. What should I tell her?
2007-03-25 12:28:14 · 17 answers · asked by Hillary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Plus, I know she is prettier than me and it makes me nervous that they guy will like her not me
2007-03-25 12:43:03 · update #1
Hillary, the game you and your friend play with all the guys that so desperately like you both, show how immature you both are. Why don't make the difference Hillary, and stop trying to be so popular with the boys and concentrate on being a serious and a well behaved lady that does not fly from flower to flower (boy to boy) like a dizzy butterfly, the end result of your behavior could have unpleasant conclusions.
2007-03-25 12:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't need the drama; if she wants to be that way, that's fine, but you deserve better than a friend who will purposely hurt you.
Anything she says to you after that, ignore her. If she treats you like that, she's not even worth your time.
As far as the flirting goes...it's possible that you flirt and don't realize it; I used to do that all the time. But if that's the case, it's just a part of your personality, no big deal. Guys aren't a competition. Just act however you naturally act around them. If your friend is trying to "win" them over, well then, that may or may not affect you, but just concentrate on the more important things in life, and you're bound to find a guy who likes you for you and won't care what this Nicolle girl has to say.
Your friends who stopped talking to you because of her...How close were you to them to begin with? If they're your friends, they should trust you enough not to believe lies. If you were close to them and she managed to ruin that, contact them, try to sort things out with them. If they won't listen to you, then apparently they aren't very good friends either.
Don't try to maintain a friendship with Nicolle. If she is doing this much to hurt you, then it isn't even worth it. You're better off without her. I've had friends like this, and I thought it would be hard letting go of those friendships, but afterwards I actually felt better because I realized that I could be independent, and HAPPIER without their drama.
Good luck. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-03-25 12:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by SheIsDeath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuse me Hillary? My name is Nicolle and I'm having issues with a girl named Hillary. Except what you just said is kinda backward of what is happeneing to us. Although that would be just like her to twist things around like that. And we never were freinds, I just followed her around because I wanted her aproval. Then I realized that she was a terrible person wanted nothing to do with me and I didnt need anything from her. And now I'm wondering if you are her. Cause you spelt the name "Nicolle" and I'm the only person I know who has it spelt like that. So to not give away anything about where I live or where you live are you located in GV. If its not you I'm sorry for wasting your time.
2007-03-25 16:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should sense responsible. You betrayed your pal on your own egocentric benefit and broke the believe between you. Why would she sense satisfied for you with this guy? She advised you she cherished him, requested you to stay away yet you determined that acquiring him became for more suitable significant than her emotions. you comprehend it became incorrect or you does no longer have sneaked round in the back of her decrease back. i think there became also a powerplay by your self in taking a guy faraway from her to make your self sense more suitable powerful. this isn't about the guy in certain, yet you going adversarial on your associates desires and by no potential giving a rattling that she will be damage. you may want to artwork flat out at earning her believe decrease back, if she will have the capacity to allow you it extremely is. 2 questions, became he worth it? How would you sense if she had finished this to you?
2016-10-17 21:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by fote 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's honest with him, then it isn't stealing. It can't be. People, even guys, are not possessions to be traded and stolen. If he likes her and she appears to him as she is, then that's not your business.
On the other hand, if she's NOT being honest, just tell the guy- calmly and reasonably- and see what happens.
2007-03-25 12:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't going out with the guy how can she be stealing ? Why don't you start flirting with Ugly guys that will confuse her.
2007-03-25 12:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. Or pray about her. Fight evil with good! There's always a reward for doing so. As the magnet on our refrig used to read, "love never fails"!
2007-03-25 12:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kristoffer C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like a very unattractive person, and while she's off wooing them to get back at you you can go ahead and pursue the person you've really got your eye on.
2007-03-25 12:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Deconstitutionalization 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a whiny, drama-stirring backstabber. Has it ever crossed your mind that maybe you're the one who flirts with all HER guys, and she knew all the guys you like before you liked them, and she's just friends with them? Just a thought. If you don't like her, ignore her.
2007-03-25 12:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by †StrongAsDeath† 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Don't be jealous just because I'm pretty and you're not. You are a seriously pathetic b**** if this is the only thing you can do for a little attention." Good luck!
2007-03-25 12:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Everybody Loves Mia <3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋