How do i regain my parents trust they took my cell away bcuz i ran the bill WAY up and now they wont give it back! i dont want to be to obvious by saying when am i gonna get my phone back bcuz i know my parents and they dont like it when i do that. they always wont reasons why i should have things!! and i really want it back! wat should i do??
ok second question
my parents spoil my younger brothers way way to much all they do to me is tell me to go get them a drink or fix supper or clean up your (my) brothers room! i really dont know wat to do! and if i say anything about it they dont answer me! help me! wat should i do? dont take me wrong they r ok sometimes but sometimes they really get on my nerves!
2007-03-25 12:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by soccerchic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if you are running the cell bill way up and they are paying for it then there is nothing you can do but get a job and help pay the bill yourself.
Your parents may be spoiling your brother because he does as he is told and doesn't cause any trouble.
2007-03-25 12:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can't compare the way your parents treat you with how they treat your brothers - you are at a different phase in your life right now. What matters is your relationship with your parents. Teach them that they can trust you by being responsible - do your chores without being asked. If they pay the bill for your cell phone, running the bill up took advantage of their generosity. Instead of whining, try apologizing sincerely, then asking what you can do to earn the phone back. Suggest taking on some extra chores or doing some other service that will make up for the money they had to fork over for your bill. This may suck, but when you earn the phone back, you will appreciate it a lot more. It will also show your parents that you understand that you messed up, that you are willing to pay the price for doing so, and that you can do it like an adult. This gives them the opportunity to see you as a contributing member of the family rather than a drain on their resources and it may help you earn their respect. Don't try to earn their trust just to get your phone back - earn it because you respect yourself enough to do so.
2007-03-25 12:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by amariune 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for you parents to trust you again you have to show them that you are responisble maybe do some more chores around the house then when they ask you why you should get your phone back you can tell them about the chores also you could offer to pay 25% of you bill or something like that.
On the second one it doesnt seem like you and your parents are very close (i dont mean to judge) just i think if you get to know them better and become closer to them with the added trust from the cell phone stuff they will probably respect you more!
Good Luck with the cell phone and i hope i helped!
2007-03-25 12:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2)I would tell my parents how i feel....i used to feel that my mom liked my older brother best and i used to think that he was the perfect angel child while i was the devil child and i thought that for 12 years...but i finally told her how i felt and we found a way to work it out! maybe you should do the same.
1) you have to show that you don't need your phone and you HAVE to show responsibility.ask how you can get the phone back and don't whine! apolagize and be sincere.
2007-03-25 12:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) thts gotta suck but i thnk u shuld talk 2 ur parents about it or help out more often ( myb th'll wrk)
2.) ummm.....U HVE 2 CLEAN UP UR BROTHR'S RM???!! wow tht really sucks 2. but i thnk u & ur parents shuld start talkng
2007-03-25 12:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is wait also get over it! you are obviously not the favorite and you can't change it. sorry.
2007-03-25 12:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
runaway,if they look for you its because they do care
2007-03-25 12:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur jealous
2007-03-25 12:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by bunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋