I am so depressed about having ED at 35. I just don't want to live anymore. To be in the minority of men feels so bad. It took me a long time to find a girlfriend and I've been a virgin all my life. I just can't deal with this.
2007-03-25 12:03:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The red flag is that you are a 35-year-old virgin. How do you know you have ED - is it trying to have actual sex, or is it alone? This is a key element that is missing here. I don't know what made you save yourself to 35, but I believe whatever it is had implanted itself so strongly you can't switch gears.
Time to loosen up and play. If it's fun, it should become less stressful. Let yourself free for 30 minutes and be daring. You are a good man who deserves this reward.
2007-03-25 12:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression can affect people if there are not eating the right foods I am sorry you have Ed, but it is not the end of the world. You need to make yourself get up and get out in the open sun, join a gym go to the bookstore and learn more about what you have. Start reading interesting books learn something new. You are at a good start by being here and talking to other people it could be a great comfort. Well I hope I could be of some help take care and try to stay happy.
2007-03-25 19:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what ED is. If you can tell me what it is please.
I really think you can deal with being depressed. You have to be willing to find something to do with yourself. Like focusing on other things that make you happy. Try taking walks, find a hobby of some sort. Join a men's group from your church if you go to church. Or, you can join a group on Yahoo Groups!
Life is what you make it. I really believe that if you are a believer in God, God can only help you overcome this, but you have to let God help you.
2007-03-25 19:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really have ED is it only when you are with a woman or is it when you are masturbating too. If you can be with yourself and not with a woman then it is probably just nerves. I know someone this happened too a long tome ago and he met a very patient girl and they worked through it slowly. They are now married with 3 kids. Good luck.
2007-03-25 19:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if you believe in a higher power but i feel like you should pray about it. life is hard sometimes. i get depressed too but i try to stay positive. things will get better for you very soon just pray and i will pray for you.
2007-03-25 19:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by jayda d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u know a man name jesus i dont know if u are a realious person or not but fast and pray about and God will see u thru ................................................................... and who cares if u are a virgin there is nothing like making luv to the one u love anyways so if u havent found that person yet thats find pray bout that too
2007-03-25 19:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by mahoganysoul28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your doctor about this, you probably need some type of therapy as well. Your doctor can reccommend someone who has experience with your situation.
2007-03-25 19:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray
2007-03-25 19:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋