whenever she doesn't get what she wants, she gets mad...she's known for getting mad...it goes away in a day or two, but then happens all over again! i don't want to stop being her friend, but what should i do?
2007-03-25 11:20:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Step up to the plate and tell her how you feel. Sounds to me like she is a little high drama. She is the only one that can fix the attitude problem. Help her find the good in all situations, no need to make a mountain out of a mole hill.
2007-03-25 11:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Education1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could tackle this problem in a couple of ways. Perhaps in a calm manner tell your friend that her constant anger at little things is causing a problem in your friendship and you would like the situation to change. If she feels angry you could say that you would rather sit and talk the situation through calmly and try to solve her feelings of anger then and there and not have to put up with the fallout that happens when she gets angry.
The other way you could try to help her would be to talk to someone who is trustworthy and would not mention that you had brought the problem up, but who could perhaps attempt to get her help or suggest she gets help with her anger.
2007-03-25 11:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's bad company you should not hang around people with negative vibes. You can try talking to her about your dilemma and if she doesn't change then stop hanging out with her. You can still be a friend through indirect interaction like IMs, emails, phone calls, etc. You don't want to get that bad vibe in your life.
2007-03-25 11:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Batman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked her about this? Make sure to do it carefully so not to hurt her feelings but let her know that she is important to you and her behavior is bothering you, Maybe there is something deeper wrong in her life.
2007-03-25 11:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by bangled_baby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you should make sure she's not right in what she says. If she's right you have to accept that. If not, you have to get away from her cause it will hurt you every time you deal with her.
2007-03-25 11:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her and tell her how weird she looks because of her irritating behaviour.tell her that nobody is more offending than her because of her short-temper...tell her honestly everything that you think about her...but tell her that you still want to be her friend because you are sincere with her.tell her to be more optimistic.
2007-03-25 11:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by ~Sid~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she's sick and tired of people's ignorance and bullshyt! i know i am! u can only put up with so much of people hurting, disrespecting and taking advantage of you before u finally blow up! that's where i'm at.
so most likely she's hurt.... that's where anger comes from.
2007-03-25 11:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her how you feel. if she's your true friend then she'll take it in. but if she gets mad at you then she isn't a true friend.
2007-03-25 11:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by cassandra59 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stop being her friend.
She's a spoiled brat, it sounds like.
2007-03-25 11:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Biff 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell her to grow up and start acting her age........tell her its too much drama for you to handle and if it doens't change make new friends
2007-03-25 11:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by josiesmom305 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋