ok well i want to get on birth control but i don't want to tell my mom why and my mom is always around when im with the doctor so i can't tell her what else can i tell her please help
2007-03-25 11:10:21 · 12 answers · asked by lopez_oneyda 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I don't know how old you are but am assuming you are young if your mom still goes to the doctor with you. Try calling your doctor's office and leave a message for the doctor or the nurse to call you back. Explain your situation and see what they can do. They will not be able to tell your mom anything. Good luck.
2007-03-25 11:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by TNBelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its no big deal to tell your mom i mean being honest is the best thing to do and if you really do not want your mom to know then i would i talk to a nurse who works for the doctor your seeing and let the nurse that you would like to ask the doctor about birth control
2007-03-25 14:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm.....why don't you see your doctor without your mom? You can also say you have irregular periods. If you are this scared to talk to your doctor about it maybe you shouldn't behaving sex. Is that why you want it? Sexually transmitted diseases are not prevented with the pill and once you get an std you will have to tell your doctor, mom there or not. Your doctor has to keep everything cofidential anyways so talk to him/her alone.
2007-03-25 11:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well actually, you should tell your doctor that you are sexually active. By law, they are not allowed to tell anyone else, if that's your concern. If you absolutely do not want to let them know, say that you want to be on birth control to regulate your period. However, I strongly reccomend that you tell your doctor.
2007-03-25 11:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I'm sure your doctor is not stupid. Why else would you want them? And they're going to ask questions.
Law suits makes them gun shy and responsible to not checking you out before they prescribe.
A mother who does not know her daughter is on birth control
and is not aware of what is going on in her life or at least being suspicious, is not much of a mother in my opinion.
And, dear young lady, it does not speak well of you either sneaking behind your mothers back.
As young as you are if you were to become pregnant your mother would be the first you'd run to, to bale you out. Then you have placed your burden of pregnancy (which it would be if that should happen) on you mother or your parents.
Usually, from what I have noticed, parent raise their kids and then there young kids have kids, and the kids parent are the one who end up raising their kids, kids, because of finances and responsibilities that go with raising children. Their kids are just not prepared.
If you young ladies want to really, really, reallllly, screw up your life, just get pregnant when you have college and a great future starring at you. That will screw up your life quicker that anything.
And, that's the truth...........
2007-03-25 11:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by smially 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
medical doctors know which you do not must be sexually lively to be on the pill. I have been given on it while i replaced into sixteen and that i replaced into nowhere close to waiting to have intercourse. i needed it because of the fact I had incredible and heavy classes. in the journey that your well being practitioner asks you which you will request that the help be inner maximum. while i replaced into 17 I suspected that I had caught some thing from oral intercourse so I asked for a try yet I asked that the help be stored inner maximum. It replaced into. As for the burden? anybody reacts to the pill in yet in a diverse way. My weight on no account particularly replaced on an identical time as on it. If something my urge for nutrients decreased heavily on an identical time as on it with the aid of consistent nausea I had from it. Which in case you do discover you have that I advise eating some thing previously taking it. it must be some thing as small as a sprint pudding cup. And struggling with weight income with the pill i'm especially particular is in basic terms comparable to struggling with the different weight. nutrients plan and exercising yet i'm particular it rather is going to on no account be a great number of complication.
2016-10-19 22:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by didden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU GO TO THE GYNECOLOGIST THEY USUALLY ASK YOUR MOM TO STAY OUTSIDE AND SIGN CONFIDENTIALITY PAPERS...AND TO GET PUT ON BIRTH CONTROL, THE DOCTOR WILL PROBABLY NEED TO DO A PELVIC EXAM FIRST, SO THEY WILL KNOW IF YOU ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE OR NOT.
2007-03-25 11:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by Renee` 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOSH, IF YOU ARE TOO EMBARRASED TO TELL YOU MOM OR TO GET AN EXAM YOU DONT NEED TO BE HAVING SEX! LETS BE REAL THERE IS MORE TO IT THAN SEX IT CAN GIVE YOU AIDS OR STDS OR YOU CAN GET PREGNANT OH AND EVEN IF THE GUY SAY HE IS ONLY WITH YOU HE IS LYING YOU CAN GET STDS OR AIDS EVEN AT THE YOUNG AGE YOU ARE OH HOW OLD ARE YOU I WOULD GUESS BETWEE, 12 - 16 OR YOU WOULD KNOW HOW TO GO ABUT THIS WITHOUT YOUR MOMMY! WAIT AND GROW UP FIRST!
2007-03-25 12:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by kathryn m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an exam the Dr. will have a good idea that you are active. Blame it on period pain.
2007-03-25 11:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by proud2btysmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your doc that u have really bad cramps and heavy periods. Tell her u want to try b.c. pills to help ease the cramping. It is proven that pills help cramps, bleeding, and they also help acne and mood. Good Luck!
2007-03-25 11:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋