a friend asked my man to do something but did not ask me she did this behind my back
2007-03-25 11:05:11 · 12 answers · asked by lfw0255 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For a start, a man cant be stolen unless he wants to be stolen. If this woman wants your man, then your man has a say in it too....does he want her?....thats the question you really should be asking. If your "friend" wants your man, then she is no friend of yours and I would be dumping her. Why put temptation in the way? Its hard enough to make a relationship work without the outside influences of another woman who has the hots for your man. Get rid of your "friend" is the only advice I can give. But if your husband really wants this other woman, then you are wasting your time because the love you thought you shared with him would be a sham. If he wants this other woman, then respect yourself enough to know that the relationship would never work anyway. Why stay with a man who doesnt really want you. If you trust your man, then trusts that he loves you and doesnt want another woman. If that is the case, then another woman wanting him wouldnt make a difference, because he loves you and doesnt want her. Whatever the situation, just know, she is not your friend.
2007-03-25 11:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand...what did she ask him? Was it sexual? And if sexual, it would have been okay if she included you? What? If this was not of a sexual nature, then I agree with the first answer you received..."no one has to go through you to talk to your man". That is pretty controlling and domineering if it is no threat to your relationship. And if it was, I don't think you would be saying...she should have asked me first.
2007-03-25 18:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real friend would have more respect for you and would have asked you first!! If she didn't have ulterior motives why would she do it behind your back? Watch her!
2007-03-25 18:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by oneontaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should have asked you first if he could help out. But this could all be innocent, maybe she had an opportunity to ask him and you weren't around. Still, she's your friend, and she shouldn't have gone above you.
2007-03-25 18:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by badkittie2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man made you aware of this incident, you should trust him. Don't trust another woman alone with your man, ever.
2007-03-25 18:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should let you in on whatever she might require your man to do for her, if she doesn't she is after your man.
You have to do something about it, FAST!
2007-03-25 18:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Pink_Zirconia!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing its sex.. and thats not much of a friend.. or she is a horny friend.. depending on what he said.. he is a keeper or not.. if he said no and told you.. then what a great guy.. i mean she is just proving your point that your with him.. right? he must be sexy and he didnt do it.. so he must be smart.. congrats.. dont let it ruin you.. just watch your friend more..
2007-03-25 18:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can your "man" not decide for himself whether he wants to do something or not? Or are you controlling?
2007-03-26 01:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it makes you uncomftorable then you need to keep a close eye one her! Dont jump to conclusions though.
2007-03-25 18:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by quoia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any woman can talk to your man anytime they wish without
going to you first....
2007-03-25 18:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋