My ex & I broke up a year ago, but had hopes of getting back together and then i got this E-Mail today. Here is what it says and tell me what you make of it-------------"I am sorry." I am letting you go to find someone else who is better for you. I will always love you, but I am not the one you need. You deserve someone who treats you with respect. I have tried to be the one for you, but I have failed within myself. You are a very special person. I Love You.
I am just heartbroken & at a loss as to what to say back to her.
2007-03-25 10:49:07 · 12 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She doesn't want to have to face you and tell you that she has someone else, so to make it easier for her she is trying to make it sound as if she isn't the best for you and she is letting you go. Don't buy that crap. She doesn't want to face up to what she is doing and so she is taking the easy way out. For a year she has led you to believe you two might get back together and probably most of this time been with someone else. If in the future she e-mails back and tells you she made a mistake run as fast as you can away from her as she is only a player.
2007-03-25 10:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's a liar and a cheat. My advice is to kick him out. fool me as quickly as, shame on you. fool me two times, sham eon me. He has been enjoying you the full time you have been mutually. It sounds like he and his homewrecker deserve eachother on condition that neither of them would properly be devoted. i understand your self belief is shot yet please comprehend, that may no longer approximately what you lacked--that is approximately him--he won't be in a position to be devoted to you. you're purely 2 yrs in. do no longer waste yet another 2 just to verify he hasn't stopped doing this or has began with somebody else. I as quickly as forgave my husband for something comparable and he ended up dishonest later. I prefer i could have purely left upon the 1st discovery.
2016-12-08 11:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by galle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say back to her? What is there to say? You got a "Dear John" note. She's found somebody else. She doesn't respect you by her own admission.
The love part is pure crap. She strung you along. She's a user. If she ever calls you up to say she made a mistake, just say "I know you did" and hang up and never answer another one of her calls.
2007-03-25 11:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is seeing someone else.Many of the things she wrote seem to have double meaning.Take this for example. "You deserve someone that treats you with respect".This tells me she has done something behind your back and feels guilty about it.This could be a confession of an ongoing affair.
2007-03-25 12:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its been a year ago, I wouldn't say anything or email back just let it go, why keep going back and forth unless you want to work at it again...
2007-03-25 12:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably just her way of making things easier for you to accept the break up and get on with your own life. Just because she has chosen not to be with you does not mean that she doesn't care about you.
2007-03-25 10:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to tell you but it's the ' it's not you it's me ' breakup. I know how badly it hurts when you break up with someone but please believe me, it does get better and she wasn't the right one for you anyway. Good luck.
2007-03-25 10:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by oneontaw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say...'goodbye'...
and nothing else...sounds to me asthough you dont have anything left to talk about! She made up her mind...dont try and change it....i know its hard...but sometimes u gotta just 'let go'....and move on....life is short, find someone who feels for you the same way you feel for them...
best of luck..
2007-03-25 10:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by lisa baby... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needed to say/write this to you so she can go on with her life, and also let you go on with yours.
It's over- so try to concentrate on healing your heart.
Wish her well and move on.
Good luck,
2007-03-29 04:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you deserve better. Get out there and start having fun!
2007-03-25 10:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋