i am 24 and my now ex-boyfriend is 23 who has cheated on me numerous times (and i forgave him in the past). we stayed together but i put him out friday. i desperately want to get over him but of course last night he called me numerous times (i did not answer or call him back) what can i do to get over this man whom i love but know is not the right one for me.
2007-03-25 10:37:05 · 6 answers · asked by Bee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to cut him off totally, don't continue to allow him to walk over you. He will only continue to cheat on you if you keep "forgiving" him. Find a man who will be faithful to you. You deserve nothing less.
2007-03-25 10:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend of 4 years whom i loved so much cheated on me multiple times, and of course i took him back because I loved him so much.. and then ya know what.. he cheated again!!! then he asked me to marry him afterwards.. it was really hard but I said NO!! we broke up and about 3 months after we broke up he was engaged to another girl.. that told me something.. that he never really loved me!! and I had to except that!! A guy that cheats and cheats cant stop.. its like an addiction that is hard to kick.. you should keep ignoring him, get your number changed, and hang out with your girlfriends as much as you can until you can stop thinking about him.. and when you feel like your ready.. start dating again!!! meet new and better guys, maybe not a long term thing.. but just little dates here and there ( kinda like Aniston in the break up ) If you cant stop thinking about your ex and you feel like Urge to go back to him.. think about the girl he was with, about the times he cheated... tell yourself that there is the possibility he could do it again.. a womans heart is way to fragile to let some punk go breaking it like a plastic toy!!
2007-03-25 10:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Fashion Diva 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As yourself why it is you "love" someone who doesn't respect you, honor your wishes, and shows only his desires are important. If you focus on the things that you want in a partner, and compare those to what you get with this individual, you might find that you start feeling less "love" as time goes by. Remind yourself every time he calls that you are going to be true to you, because he certainly won't, and tell him to tell his lies elsewhere.
2007-03-25 10:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by TAMAJ13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start getting yourself busy. Join a club or gym. Immerse yourself on working on you so you'll attract the man you really want.
2007-03-25 10:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start doing things you like to do. call the girls. go out for a girlsnight out. show him you are not sittingaround and thinking about him. go to the mall go out to eat call your family keep yourself busy with other people.
2007-03-25 11:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by moonshadow45001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no boy that cheatz is a MAN ! **** him and his stupid cheating ***, you deserve better, i know it hurts but one day you'll find a MAN
2007-03-25 10:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋