Well we found out that my brother is going to get married, well wants to so like my mom got this my surprised so like she wants my brother to take more time to think about it....What should my mom tell my brother...should she support him or reject him of his decision?
2007-03-25 10:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by hello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he needs to sit and talk to her then again with his to be wife,dont disown him because hes deciedeing to get married-thats not a crime and who knows you may even like the girl,after all you love your brother you just may like herself.
2007-03-25 10:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to be honest with her brother and tell him how she is feeling about this and that he really needs to take his time before marrying. She can make suggestions and tell him her concerns BUT she still needs to respect him and his decision either way and if he does choose to marry she should support him once he is married. I dont feel it is right to reject him since he is her brother.
2007-03-25 10:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your brother? If he is a grown adult then I think your mother should support him. However, if he is too young then I think your mom needs to have a long talk with him. Either way, in the end, your mother should support him because that's what moms do.
2007-03-25 10:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by oneontaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think she should reject him, but maybe the two of them need to sit down at talk especially since it sounds like your brother made a hasty decision in mom's eyes. you don't say if she has met the future daughter-in-law, and she may just like the young lady once she gets to know her.
family connections are a strong and necessary part of life and too often our family ties are frayed by things that happen and never get resolved, so the family falls apart. hopefully this won't be the case with your family.
2007-03-25 10:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by loving 40+ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how old your brother is. You mom should support him,but she does have a right to be upset because it came by suprise. That will be her child for ever so she should just stand by him. Just be there for her at this time. Everyparent gets a little emotional when theior child gets married. Dont worry it will bhe okay. Just be there for her.
I hope everything goes well.
2007-03-25 10:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by scoopie110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the end of the day its your brothers life your mum should be there for him, he could get married an it not work out in which case your mum will be the one he turns to its his decision. has she told him she thinks he should wait an for what reasons, there isnt any point her kicking up a fuss cause itl just make ur bro do it all the more
2007-03-25 10:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your brother is an adult, he has the right to make his own decisions.
parents worry about their kids... but can't make decisions for them all of their lives.
your mother needs to realize this, and take care of her OWN life.... and be supportive of your brother, no matter what decision he makes.
it's very unhealthy to become consumed with worry over what other people do....
take care
2007-03-25 10:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should let him go if this is what he wants just let him be. It is time for her to let go of her little boy, because now he is a grown man that is making his own decisions.
2007-03-25 10:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother will do what he wont's anyway.So if I was her I would stay out of it.She doesn't have to support his decision.But except it then the family will stay together
2007-03-25 10:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by freddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur bro not to get married at that time ok bye
2007-03-25 10:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋