I know this guy since I am 7 and I truly love him, he feels the same too, but I had to let him go yesterday, because he lives far away, and I can't continue suffering by this distance that separates us, I can't go where he lives because I am studying in College and I first need to finish my education, he is doing that too, but still I feel sad, because we are not together, and I told him, to be happy and to find somebody that makes him happy, and he told me that he was always going to be waiting for me, and that he loves me too, but it's not our fault that we can't be together, If you were in my position would you think that at the end of our journey we might end up together?, thank you I appreciate your answers!
2007-03-25 10:25:06 · 8 answers · asked by chiquita g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It can work and it will if you want it to. My boyfriend and I went to school well over 300 miles apart and I saw him once a month, maybe. We did this for a year and couldn't take it anymore. We had a discussion about and decided he should transfer to my school and now we are still together a year later! Long distance can work if you both make sacrifices and decide what is best for each of you. I couldn't get my degree at his school so he came to me. Maybe you all should discuss some arrangement like this or maybe spend the summer together? If you love each other nothing else will matter! My boyfriend once told me he'd rather see me one day a year than any other girl everyday. If you and your guy have that mentality it will work. Best of luck!
2007-03-25 10:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by wkuchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am living the same hing. The person I'm in love with lives 800+ miles away. We talk on the phone at least twice a week. I have flown to see him three times. I know what it means to miss someone who you live. The real test of time comes when you see if you can maintain a long distance relationship. We hope to be married within the next few years, and it's hard for us to be apart. We both are in our forties, and I know young love isn't patient, neither is our love, we have just learned how to deal with it and plan as many trips in between as possible. We both have learned not to let a good thing get away for the second time. We have known each other since the age of eight, he moved away when we were 12, I have always found him over the years, and I think now this is our time, and we are going to go for it, and you should too!
2007-03-25 10:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sure can. My husband and I are proof. My husband was a marine stationed in Hawaii when I was living at home before we got married. We've now been married over 20 years and have 2 kids. We were apart several other times too due to his deployments, but that just comes with being a marine wife. If you truly love each other and are mature enough to handle a long distance relationship for a while, then you'll be able to make it.
2007-03-25 11:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work if you love each other enough. My husband and i were both in the military b4 we were married and I became very sick while he was away. They sent me away for treatment several times then discharged me. We stayed together while i was in the states and he was in Japan until 5 months later we got to see each other again. He got out and we are very happy!! If things are meant to be then nothing can get in the way of it and sometimes being away makes ur relationship so strong that when you are together again you know that nothing will come between you. Your relationship will be to strong to break!!
2007-03-25 11:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying"If you love someone enough,let them go,if it is meant to be,they will return" and I did and My Husband and I are NOW together. Hope this helps answer your question.
2007-03-25 10:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it easily relies upon on you 2 and what youre keen to resign to finally end up mutually. issues will come and go and regulate through your college years and once you graduate,youll in all likelihood have careers to address, and thatll be the biggest undertaking on who supplies up their occupation to move to be with the different. issues wont be as ordinary and sparkling reduce now on as they were once. keep in mind in case you opt for some thing youll take a chance yet in case you opt for some thing undesirable sufficient, youll chance each thing. yet interior the intervening time save in contact with one yet another and be keen to bend slightly at cases, and God keen sometime you 2 will be mutually. solid success
2016-12-02 19:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by quartermon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, long-distance relationships do not work.
Good luck.
2007-03-29 04:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are meant to be together it will happen.
2007-03-25 10:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋