i am so depressed and ashamed from all this. i am scared for my child and my future sometimes i think i should have got an aborition. what do i do. all i ever do is cry and think about suicide.
2007-03-25 10:17:55 · 10 answers · asked by Yumyum 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm really sorry. You should def. leave the father if he makes you feel like that! Of course if he wants to be a part of your baby's life then that's his right but I shouldn't be like that with you. Maybe you should leave him and try to move on and look foward to your new little one you'll have in 3 months!!!! Congrats and I hope you feel better soon. You may just need to talk to a girlfriend or something to just get stuff off of your chest!
2007-03-25 10:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without more details it's almost impossible to give advice, but I would say if you have family you can go to for support, start there. Leave your boyfriend. Is he physically/emotionally abusive? If so, you should look into getting a restraining order. If he's just a jerk, maybe once you break things off he'll just go away. If you are completely on your own, look into shelters and organizations that help women get a new start. Things won't always be bad, but you need to take action to make your life the one that you want. If you do nothing, your problems will stay the same or even get worse. Just remember, you can do anything you put your mind to - nothing is impossible, but you have to be willing to work hard and put in the effort to change things. Good luck with everything.
2007-03-25 10:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by katiecorolla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the father already treat you bad or are you just afraid of it happening? Abortion is not a good option. My brothers mother was young and decided she didn't want him. she gave him up for adoption and he was the biggest blessing to me and my family. if you would like to put up your child for adoption you can do an open adoption or you can help pick the parents. if you really would like to keep the baby but escape the father and you have no help, there are places called maternity homes and some women's shelters help as well. It is a very scary thing to consider because you have little control over what is happening, but I did it to get my life in order and 3 years later I am on my feet well and I found the man of my dreams.. good luck, it WILL get better. Failure is not an option, and neither is suicide
2007-03-25 10:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tiff G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st get a laywer and in case you may not have the money for one bypass to legal aide. Secondly if he has warrants and smokes weed, you need to use that against him additionally. additionally he desires to be waiting to coach previous a clever doubt you're an not worth mom, that's an rather not undemanding component to do. After the toddler is born you may bypass to kinfolk courtroom and request sole and legal custody of the toddler. that's what I did. My son's father left while i replaced into 4 months pregnant and that i did not see him aound lower back until eventually at last my son replaced right into a month old. good success. i does not undertaking nevertheless, feels like the guy is a real loser.
2016-10-19 21:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went throught the exact same thing. My father told me to get an abortion because he didnt want me to ruin my life. Well gees i tell him that how can a child ruin your life? I never went through with it and now i have a wonderful three year old.
You cant let people make the choice for you. Only you can make the most informed decision for yourself and whats right for you.
No you may not always be this depressed. There will be days were it will be hard and you'll want to cry and wish things back to the way they were. But know that this too shall pass. If you need someone to talk to about it, email me chik620@yahoo.com
2007-03-25 10:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. You don't want your baby to around this kind of negative influence, and you don't need to be in an abusive relationship. You are a strong woman. You don't need a man to make you feel wonderful and beautiful. You can do this without him. Also consult your doctor immediately about your suicidal thoughts. He can get you the help you need. Keep your chin up and good luck.
2007-03-25 10:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the father for your baby's sake. You have to protect your baby. If he treats you that way how do you think he will treat your child. If you need help contact a local women's shelter and they should be able to give you advice about how to leave him and getting protection. Good Luck and don't let him cry you back. he had his chance don't give him another.
2007-03-25 11:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by zookeeper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get help, your not alone. You need to be done with this guy and get rid of him. If he makes you feel thi way hes not the man for you. You are a strong person and can raise this child with out him just fine. Suicide is not the answer, think about your baby. if you die then that baby wll be raised by him, and he willtreat this child the same way. Think about it and please get help. Good luck to you!
2007-03-25 10:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from him...file a police report and get a restraining order!...Don't you have any family or friends that can help you?....Trust me, you DO NOT want to stay in that kind of relationship...your too young for that ****!!...Please do what I say or you Will regret this...You did right for the baby!!....You cant raise a baby in that type of atmosphere...Get Help now!!
2007-03-25 10:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by jan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all you gotta do is assure yourself that if he even think about putting his hans on you, you will kill him
2007-03-25 10:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by akiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋