Does this person REALLY................???...?

Question

Does this person REALLY................???...
feel guilty?
like say if the person does cry about what they've done and does feel bad for it? but then after they feel sad about it they start feeling better and happier and they don't feel guilt at that moment and they start thinking about other things like thier minds drift off?.........they still didn't like what they did but they don't feel that horrible guilt feeling at that moment...................

they also feel bed tht they don'[t always feel guilty and try to force themselves sometimes to feel the guilt again?........................... kniow it might be ok if you did somethhing bad thta was little but what if it was BIG?

so back to my question does the person still care?............................ said if they could change one thing in thier life they would change tht even though there are othr things that makes their life suck like an asshole parent

o yea and even if the answer turned out 2 be no to this the person still wants to and knows they deserve to feel guitly

Answer 1

I'm beginning to think yahoo don't delete everything. If the other person or persons involved in the incident can be apologized to then that is the first step in forgiving yourself. No one "deserves" to feel guilty 100% of the time. Not even an inmate in a prison. If the other people can't forgive you, you can still forgive yourself. Counseling can help too.

Answer 2

Guilt like hate are awful. Do you take the hint?

No kind hearted person would want another to feel more than reasonable and transitory guilt for what they have done if that person has truly learnt from their guilt and moved on.

Wishing to be able to undo the past is ridiculous. What was then is then. Now is now. The future is before us.

True reconciliation between the aggrieved and perpetrators of awful deeds is necessary to assuage guilt and perhaps the hate of things. This is the learning I refer to.

To forgive oneself can be very hard. To help someone to forgive themselves is a good thing to do.

Answer 3

The instanteneous reaction of an individual depends upon many factors like degree of annoyance, his history of brought up , his family environment and his friends at school/college etc. These factors decide his degree of repentance as well. In case one has seen similar situations happening around him in the past then he may feel it even bad, but,if the mistake has been committed by him unknowingly ,then he will defenitely realise the matter and feel guilty.
All the human beings will never react to a particular situation in the same manner.

Answer 4

let me draw from my own experiences. I did a terrible thing one night many years ago..To this day i feel terrible about it..to this day i feel guilty, I would like to go back and fix it but I can't.But life goes on and the mind will do other things but every once in a while I remember what I did and I feel real bad..but there is nothing I can do to fix it, so when I do remember it I just hope this dude turned out o.k. ask for forgiveness and move on..its all I can do..but yes I still feel bad.But I don't feel bad for not feeling bad all my life.