If there was a guy you liked, but he was a cool friend. Would you try to become his girlfriend and risk your friendship through a breakup or just keep the friendship alive?
2007-03-25 09:55:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no. I would totally keep the friendship alive
2007-03-25 09:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by miki2010vln2 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think for young people teens and early 20's , that if you already have developed a great friendship you should not try and take it to an intimate one because most likely you will break up at some point and you can't go back to what you had before, it just isn't there anymore. I made that mistake 2 times when i was younger.
There are plenty of guys and gals in the world to date , but finding a great friend is something special and you don't want to lose that.
If you didn't feel passionate about the person from the start or fall madly in love when you met then you should not risk your friendship.
2007-03-25 10:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by wylddysfunction 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on the girl/guy and friendship. From experience, I would have to say keep the friendship going. If there is meant to be a relationship between the two of you, then it will happen. Don't force anything. If I wanted to risk a friendship to make it into a relationship (believe me, I have)then I'd go for it. But like I said before, if there is something there, don't force it, if something was supposed to happen between two friends it will eventually happen.
2007-03-25 11:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls just want a friend and some girls just want a boyfriend. Friendship is better because you can keep it alive.
2007-03-25 12:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little of both. if i did risk my friendship w/ him and go out w/ him then we probably wouldn't talk in a very long time. that always happens around friends of the opposite sex. i would just keep the friendship alive and see where that leads me first.
2007-03-25 10:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id want that person to kno but i wouldnt want to risk a friendship either id rather have a friend srry
2007-03-25 10:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Joyce S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the relationship alive man, relationships are beautiful of course, but not all go well. Friendships, if they're great, last forever.
2007-03-25 09:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well it depends, on what you guys have in common? Do you guys flirt alot?? Do you guys like to hang out alone?? or are you guys unsually in a group of freinds? Because if you are able to hang out on periods of time, just the two of you, and have things in common with one another, then I am sure you and him are boyfreind material, but if you are not sure, don't make a move yet. Just see if he wanted to go and see a movie with you, and see how it turns out. and if things go okay, then go for it...but if you are still iffy be careful. Because sometimes realationships turn out better then what they may seem.
2007-03-25 09:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-19 21:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kind of a relationship i have with the person and if i'm attracted to them. because if i could go out with him then i would. only problem is, (like you said), when you break up you lose a boyfriend and a friend.
2007-03-25 09:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋