My GF asked me for a break after one year, what should I do?

Question

So my GF and I were together for a little over a year and she recently asked for a break because we were "slowly drifting apart". She said she loved me but she told me that quite frankly she didn't feel the same anymore and that "there was no spark there anymore". I was also her first sex partner (I figured that meant she thought we would last longer). My question is, what can I do to get her feelings back for me?

Answer 1

let her go, she's already made up her mind, sorry

Answer 2

If she has told you for a break it means that may be for any reason she´s bored, she doen´t see in you what she used to. we, girls, believe in true love, an amasing and fabulous love for ever, but the truth is that most of the time that doesn´t exist for all of us. In my opinion you should give her time and while try to be a better person, a bit different, being happy always works to be even good-looking. May be she will want to be with you again if she sees your new one. If not you´ll probably find your true love.

Answer 3

Do you know what.....you cant do anything anymore. When she said that "there's no sparks anymore" then she just doesn't feel the same for you, as she did one year ago. Trust me, I went trough that. But my case was different. It was like something at first sight. I really liked him, but he took too long to ask me to be his gf. It took him 5 long months. So I got with him, but I didn't feel anything special no more, like I did before. I used to really really like him, but he never did anything about it. That feeling slowly left. Dude......she doesn't like you no more. Just let her go. It doesn't matter what you do, your not going to change the way she feels about you. Sorry.

Answer 4

Give it 10 years, improve yourself, every day, Just keep improving yourself, if your young, its okay, maybe you should just date for a while, shell ALWAYS be on your mind, but youll find that she will drift away, *especially if you improve yourself* by doing this youll find that other someone for you, probably better than someone who wants to take a break!

Answer 5

You can't make her feel the same way about you like she did in the past. Give her some space, and see if that helps. If it doesn't , all you can do is get another girl friend.

Answer 6

That's a oneliner for I'm seeing someone else, man.

Others are:
Need some space
It's not you it's me
You love me more than I love you, and it's not fair to you......etc.

You can start seeing other women whether you want to or not. Your ex may then think twice about what's happened.
Don't put all your eggs in one basket as they say.

Best of luck to you!

Answer 7

theres nothing u can do about it unfortunately, when someone doesn't feel the same about us as we do for them we have to let it go, or distance ourselves for awhile, and hope we can get them back one day. best not to beg, as begging will win u no respect from anyone, it will just make u look weak. just accept it, nothing else u can do right now. she has to make her own decisions, and do her own thing, we really have no control over others choices, which can and do cause us alot of pain at times.

Answer 8

Give her space, and take the break. Time without u will make her realise that she really loves u....

Or it could infact show her that she wants to be single, but thats the risk u have 2 take.

Answer 9

Its over Bobby, let her go and have fun for a while. If she was meant for you, she will come back. Enjoy yourself in that time as well. See where you land.

Answer 10

Sorry, but it sounds like she already has a replacement in mind. My bf's cousin had this very problem. That is what happened to him anyway. gl

Answer 11

give her a break, but before you do, make sure you plan on how long the break is actually going to be. if you don't agree to a break, she'll prolly dump you. be reasonabale and it'll be okay.