i have like no friends because of what school i got to. when i find a friend and i go on aol i end up gabbing like there is no tommorroe. which is bad now , because the guy who liked me then i liked him after he found another girl is implying that i annoy him. and i enjoy talking to him but now i cant cause he tells me to go away. now i get bored out of my mind cause i have like 15 ppl on aol and only like 4 ppl are ever on, if any :(
2007-03-25 09:37:29 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Casey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have tried to make plans with ppl but none of the ppl i go to school with live near me they live atleast an hour away or more. and i never have a ride cause my mom is always sick and my dad is always busy. i have no life when i should. its killing me inside!
2007-03-25 09:46:56 · update #1
No your not pathetic, but you do need to build up your self confidence and self esteem to feel better about yourself! Look at good qualities about yourself and what your not happy about look at what you can do to feel better about yourself!
Maybe get a makeover to feel good about yourself. A new hair style or cut. Check out some teen mags like seventeen or allure. You can also check out stuff online as well.
Look at some of the styles they have n what you think youd look good in and if your on a budget try a retail store and get you some new outfits!
As far as school, look at how you are treating your classmates. Sometimes we push people away without realizing it.
Look at some activities at your school and if you goto church get involved with the activities going on.
About this guy, its time to move on.. no guy who treats someone the way he is treating you is worth your time! DELETE ... Check out myspace.. its free and yahoo messenger, they have chat rooms on yahoo for teens and interests that you have to start talking to new people!
Its time for the real you to come out .. the confident you who doesnt let someone make you feel less than you are.. good luck!!
2007-03-25 09:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are relying too much on other people to fulfill the loneliness you feel inside. The internet won't help with this. If you want to be happy and not feel lonely find activities to do that you enjoy, like rock climbing at a gym, join a sport, join an art/dance/photo class outside of school, knitting classes are fun, or something along those lines-- whatever is fun for you. This will help you become confindent and content with yourself, not to mention you will meet more (new) people this way.
2007-03-25 09:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not pathetic. Just back off a bit. People like friends that aren't over bearing and want a two way conversation ... so listen too!!
Also, think about who you are talking to. What do they want to talk about??
Best of luck to you!! I really hope everything goes well ... you sound like a super sweet girl and I hope you don't put yourself down in the future!!
2007-03-25 09:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by jaytotheackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its kinda hard to stop talking i mean i talk a lot too but its just that if people dont like you then they are not your friends thats all. i have a lot of good friends and they dont care if i talk a lot or not all they care about is that im a good friend and u should just try to make friends that actually like you oh and if u wanna add me on aol i think mine is lilrichgrlxoxo k?
2007-03-25 09:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by tran n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are just lonely--you do need friends close by that you can connect to and hang out with. Don't worry about the guy for now--that will come in time. By the way guys can get turned off when you chase them too hard...So it can be worth it to play hard to get...Don't ask me why it works--I just know it does--part of the human factor--guys wat what they can't have...Girls too.
I think you need a best friend--someone you can confide in...Forget the guy for now--forget the online friends and look around your neighborhood.
:)
2007-03-25 09:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Missy Lyons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, it sounds like the computer is your problem. trying going somewhere to meet with ppl
2007-03-25 09:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by loulou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your pathetic, Just bored to death like me
2007-03-25 09:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by manardodude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask people what makes you annoying then try to fix it. and if he tells you to go away he isn't worth your time.
2007-03-25 09:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by †StrongAsDeath† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just lay of a while and don't push them so hard you come on a little to strong
2007-03-25 09:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you smother your friends. just back off a bit.
2007-03-25 09:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋