This past weekend we were partying @ my sister's house, when my niece (26YO), told me that the weekend before when my boyfriend( 34 YO) and I got into a fight, and he left, they slept together, I asked him yesterday, and he said he didn't she was just starting trouble, I asked her too, and she says it happened, but she keeps calling my house acting like nothing happened. He has never cheated before, or has never gave me a reason not to trust him. I do know however my niece is scandelous, I don't know if I should believe him or not, if they did sleep together, I can forgive, but I just want the truth, I keep thinking of blood is thicker then water, but I don't trust my niece at all, any thoughts??
2007-03-25 09:00:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go with your instincts. Talk to him, and tell him that if he did you can forgive him, but you want the truth. if he then tells you that nothing happened then most probably nothing did. Your niece is probably just jealous, looking for attention, or a window of oppurtunity. You and your boyfriend should show her you are a couple, and pay no attention to her troublemaking.
2007-03-25 09:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Katie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut..You know him and you know her. Its so hard to say..Girls can be trouble makers but so can men. I'm sure if he did he is feeling super guilty and not wanting to tell you because of the effects it could have on the two of you. I'd say believe him because if he did do it, he is going to have to live with the guilt for a life time and there is nothing worse than that..As for her..don't take her calls, she doesn't care about you..Family or not.
2007-03-25 16:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did HE start the fight? If he did...chances are..he did it to go and sleep with her....they are working together.....she called because the boldness in her is because of him....that's why.
Get him out of the house. I think you just caught a cheater in his craft.
2007-03-25 16:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably at least a 50/50 chance of it being true...
2007-03-25 16:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah you would be best to take your gutt feelings then make a decision on what comes next!
good luck hun
2007-03-25 16:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by rpoker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your husband about, but let him change the subject, and talk to your family for help.
nobody likes a liar
2007-03-25 16:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by bookworm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch them, closely.
2007-03-25 18:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your boyfriend
2007-03-25 16:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants u to leave him so that she can get him for herself
2007-03-25 16:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by sexyjasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋