What will u do, when u realise that things r officially falling apart?

Question

When u r in a very serious situation, u r repeatedly getting abused and tortured, when there is a danger to ur life, when u have tried everything to get out of the situation but failed and get disbelieved by the world, u have no way to punish ur abuser or stop anything and when u realise that things r officially falling apart. What will u do?

Answer 1

There are always the ways and means to come out of a tricky situation. The only problem is that solution lies very close and we go on looking elsewhere. Try if you can locate help very nearby. Do not lose hope. Learn the fact that on this hope only the world is moving. Donot ever lose hope.Lastly, even after all the attempts still no solution is forthcoming leave the things to their fate. What ever has to happen will happen then and you will not feel that you have not done enough. Since you have done all you could the rest will be taken care by the destiny. Karmanyavadhikaraste Ma Phaleshu Kadachan.

Answer 2

Run away if you want to survive :)

operationspiritlift has answered your question very well. You have to fight for urself. At least, the first step you only have to take. I have no idea what situation you are in. All I can do is to try & understand. I know how painful it is when you want to live & bang........ur life jumps 10 steps forward. But that does not means that you have to let it go. Hold on to it. Pick pieces of ur life & if there is nothing that you can do now then start preparing for a better future by building a career & moving out of that place.
Whenever I face any problem, I just tell myself that this problem has to be faced by somebody in this world . Good, it came to me. Almighty above knows I am strong & I carry a winning attitude. Try doing the same. The feeling that you are saving somebody else from a trouble works wonders.
And yes, as some of the other users have mentioned trust God & ask for his blessings.

Answer 3

My mom was beat and abused while I was growing up. She was taken in the woods at one point and was beaten so bad that her jaw was broken. Her face was all bruised and swollen. My step father tried to kill her. She put up with this abuse for years. Most people that are in situations like this, are afraid of the abusers, or have gone through this stuff so much that they actually believe the verbal abuse the abuser tells them. They just accept it as their life and live it. Well, we are not to be abused, and we are not to be tortured. Where there is a will, there is a way. Not sure about you, but I am a person and I will not be abused nor will I be tortured. I do not know how old you are. That really doesn't matter. You need help. I would go outside your family. If you go to school, talk to a teacher, or a counselor. If you are grown, there are many agencies out there that will help you. You have to take the first step though. Get out!!! Do not tolerate that kind of behavior from anyone. There is somebody out there that will believe you. That doesn't even really matter if someone believes you or not, it's the help you need.

Good luck!!! Pray, God answers prayers too!! He would be a great source for you!!

Answer 4

First have confidence in you. Understanding that you're a human being who is much more powerful than other species and take control and improve your own environment.

There is always a way out, so try to find it using your own knowleges and skills. That's the best bet.

Also talk to others, as you're already doing, by posting this. If possible be specific in questions so you get better answers.

As for danger to life, then do best to ensure your survival. That's the primary requirement for life.

As for impact on your life from others then there are lows and highs. Try to overcome it using positive steps, and if you do then in future never cause such trouble to others.

That will hopefully make a better world.
Wish you all the best.

Answer 5

Maybe you should try to see the good that came out of your situation, try to find the courage in yourself to overcome what you are feeling, and don't give up, sure there is bad in the world but there is also a lot of good in it. If you see the world in a bad way then all you are probably going to see is bad, so try to to find a positive aspect. I mean did you ever feel good and happy and peaceful? well if you did then try to look for that feeling again and maybe it will help motivate you. Anyway I hope this helps, and if it didn't, well I tried.

Answer 6

First accept the reality. Analise the situation. Find out where you went wrong. But in this process you don't cheat yourself.
Step-2: Take the help of your best friend, But give correct picture to him.
Step-3: Find out a short path to get out of the situation first.

Answer 7

In your community there should be a women's shelter. If you do not know where it is, call an attorney in your town/city, they can give you the telephone number.
They can help you get out, get your life back on track and give you counseling so you do not go back to this man.
If you have problems finding the shelter email me, I will help you as much as I possibly can.
You have a sister that knows where you are coming from.

Answer 8

You sure tried everything possible?Yes,then you have to accept it,and find the way how to live with it.It is simple and difficult in the same time!

Answer 9

You send an email to a friend........perhaps a friend that might be halfway around the world........and you tell that person that you are ready to call the police or the helpline one more time with that person's support.

Answer 10

Been there. With time, everything changes. Usually for the better. Changed for me. 10 years of hell, now everything is great. Hell from two different people; both gone...