I've tried the positive thinking but it works in reverse. When I think negative it happens positive.?

Answer 1

on a sub conscious level you have convinced yourself that that is the way it works,so thats how it works for you,say for example when we are desperately lonely and actively seeking out a partner it seems to allude us,but as soon as we "give up" and we no longer care then someone comes into our life,this is a well known phenomena,mostly this is caused by our pre-concieved notions of what is.you see all these things that we have grown up with in our lives that have been taught to us are ingrained deeply in a sub concsious level,essentially we must re-wire our brains to create our own true reality,for example there is no true balance of good and evil,of god and satan,these are notions that have been invented by the human mind,everything that we see and pecieve and believe in is in a sense and invention of our own thoughts,bottom line is god gave us a vast playground to be prosperous abundant joyful happy and peaceful,to learn to grow. it is our free will that holds us back from the complete joy and bliss that has been given to us,because we are all one,thats a hard concept...oneness,but if you open yourself up to it you can see its true.be happy and spread love thats what god wants and thats what every soul in the universe wants...deep down. ghandi said it very well "be a positive role model...be the change you want to see in the world"

Answer 2

It may sometimes seem that way but my guess is that if you keep track of each situation, how it is framed, either negatively or positively, has no real bearing on the outcome. As a great American general once put it, ' It is wonderful to believe in miracles but don't count on them';or as Ben Franklin once said, 'it is prudent to plan for the best outcome but prepare for the worst.'

Answer 3

I agree with some of the other responders. Your subconscious mind is programmed incorrectly. A great book to reprogram your mind simply and effectively is "What To Say When You Talk To Yourself" by Shad Helmsetter, Ph.D. Read the reviews at Amazon.com to see actual results from readers.

Answer 4

i know what you mean...like when you hope for something...the other always happens!!..dont think like that just go with the flow!! dont think of it has thinking negative or positive just be optimistic and you can only hope for the best. Your mind is playing tricks on you....

Answer 5

weird