There's a man I know who I find very attractive. When we're together it feels like there's that 'vibe' in the air - however, could this all be me? If the vibe is there for me, does it necessarily mean it is for him too? Or could he be totally oblivious? Opinions please! Thankyou.
2007-03-25 08:30:12 · 12 answers · asked by flowerpot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's probably mutual. As far as being obvious to the other, I'd say yes. Is it obvious to onlookers? Well, that depends how keen their intuition is and mine is awesome.
2007-03-25 08:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the person it is most obvious is yourself. But, you can look at someone and they have that look in there eye and you can tell if they really are having feeling for you. You just can it shows on their face and their actions. Haven't ever looked at a married man and it shows on their face that really would like to get to know you better , that is the time to run not walk away from the before you get that look yourself. Have you ever went out dancing with a couple and the other man ask you to dance and they hold you a little to tight and you feel somethng hit you on the leg that is the time to to tell your husband ,"We need to go , I'm not feeling well".
2007-03-25 08:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in your head, hon. He isn't thinking about 'vibe' and you
know he isn't oblivious. A gentleman waits for a lady to say her bedroom window is open Thursday nights and a ladder can be found behind the barn.
2007-03-27 15:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok personal experience of mine...There this guy who has apparently liked me for awhile and although I didn't know at the time later he told me that when he was around me he felt a connection between us yet I had no idea this whole time. that he felt something.I had secretly liked him to and had similar feelings when we would be in the same room but thought it was just me so I never acted any different than I normally would ....maybe he feels the same just is not 100% sure you are feeling it too...
2007-03-25 08:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by cherished218 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sis. u kind a right it is obvious. and first thing first u must never hasitate.
it does happened when ever u see a man or a women attractive
firstly u got lost. and u imagine of being with him or her.
once u get to spent a time with them it became hard to resists them.
my suggestion is if u think that the man is that much of good and important to you then just ask him simply what does he thinks about you. i know it is hard but some time waiting games make it harder for you to get him.
dont waste your time just ask him what he thinks.
thats why i said u must never hasitate.
2007-03-25 08:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by iffanpathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell, i knew a bloke who told me i was loveley and real nice things and i thought he really liked and a couple of weeks later out of the blue he finished with me and told someone i was an unemployed layabout i was very hurt expassilly as i am a carer and doing a degree and don,t sit aorund all day, what a horrilble person he was. warning be careful not everyone is as they seem
2007-03-25 08:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No in no way Scooter, i assume you met this costly somebody here, and what befell on your connection replaced right into a growing to be, and conversing previous here. I ought to have confidence there replaced into some mutual entertainment, yet "slowly" is the approach and that i doubt you would be much less considered in the doing.
2016-10-19 21:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, as I am in excatly the same conundrum my answer might be "when you get an answer forward it to me please" However, my answer is actually going to be "yes, I think it can be that obvious, they do say that the chemistry is static in the air" But, as I said just now, I like someone & when we're together we'r really good, but he then dosen't text or phone for a week or more.
2007-03-25 08:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean it depends on if you are showin it or not. i mean hey the "vibe" may not be all you. it could be comin from him 2. u should watch out 4 that. i mean hey u should try and kiss him. and c what he does.
2007-03-25 08:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know its a intangible feeling
2007-03-25 08:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋