Garsh every one in the world hates me... i cut my self and try to make friends but no one seems to like me... WHAT CAN I DO
2007-03-25 08:29:00 · 13 answers · asked by TASHAN W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find someoen with your problems then get help. You'll both know how it feels and you'll both understand, CUTTING YOURSELF IS DANGEROUS!
2007-03-25 08:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by LG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really bad for you. I think that if you're cutting yourself as a way of expressing your feelings, then you should stop. Express your feelings in a hobbie or something. Maybe you're making friends with the wrong people? I've recently gotten into a bad situation with friends, but you have to think positively. If you keep thinking that everyone hates you, that won't make you feel any better. Try making friends with the right people or the people that you'd least expect to get on with. If that doesn't work, try meeting new people at music concerts or whatever. If you take up a new hobbie, you might meet people there. Just be yourself.
2007-03-25 16:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by pulp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone hates you. I don't. OK so I don't know you but there has to be something you like about yourself. Have a think about what people like you for, there has to be something, Has anyone ever said you have a good complexion, hair, figure etc. Start from there and build on it. I have been as low as you are now and it isn't easy but you can make friends and get a good life. It has taken me a few years and there have been bad times but I'm happy now. Focus on what is good in you, make a list and seek help to talk your feelings over with someone who understands what you are going through. You are not on your own. Trust me.
2007-03-25 15:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE stop cutting yourself! You might think nobody likes you, but I'm sure there are those that do. First of all though, you truly need some counseling. Confide in someone you trust about the cutting and the feelings about not having friends. You are a special and valued person. God loves you and has put you here for a reason. Please, seek advice from someone soon! God Bless:)
2007-03-25 15:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by gone2soon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but in my opinion cutting makes u ugly and u wont gain any friends because not alot of people want to be friends with a guy who cuts him/her self. good luck making friends. just be urself and try joining extracurricular activites such as basketball or another sport. try doing a summer camp when summer rolls around.
2007-03-25 15:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, I dont want to be mean ok.. first of all snap out of it... no one hates you... love yourself.... if u hate yourself how is anyone suppose to like you... smile... be happy... do fun things... be cheerful... that will attract friends... as for ur cutting urself... stop that... isnt that ur way of feeling life... well ITS NOT HELPING IT... if u want to find a life.. GO OUTSIDE... take up running... fish.. go hunting.. be outdoors .... ONLY YOU can help yourself ok... I have a niece JUST like you and she makes my life hard on me because I dont 100% agree with everything she does...and she thinks i hate her... I DO NOT... and i cant get it through her head.... so maybe not everone hates you ... ur misunderstanding them... you gotta just be happy.. if ur not happy go to a therapist talk to someone that knows how to treat u...Pray talk to God ask Him to Help you... God Bless and take care!
2007-03-25 15:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my friend likes to ditch me and break my heart so she can make more friends than just me!
sorry buddy,
never act like my friend, just dont try to be witty, charming, or intelligent, just be yourself!
Im not saying you not all those things I am just saying be that, but at your own pace, dont push the charm!
2007-03-25 15:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by I'm mad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutting youself.. nto the "right thing to do" in my opinion.
They sell a "life" on Ebay. Just kidding.
If they did, they would not be cheap.
But, um, try to become friends with someone.
2007-03-25 15:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Orange Lipbalm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutting yourself is not going to make people like you. Actually, it will only scare them away. You can't expect someone else to love/like you when you don't love/like yourself.
Talk to someone about your feelings.
2007-03-25 15:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cut yourself to make people like you? You need help.
2007-03-25 15:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋