I am not married, but have observed my married friends and there marriages. A lot of them complain that the relationship is so much more work. Why does it have to be that way? What changes everything?
2007-03-25 08:27:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well, for starters, if you are dating each other, but not living together, that circumstance changes when you start living together.
You each get to see each other in your unprepared, plain, sleepy-eyed, groggy selves in the morning and some of us look pretty rough in the morning.
You get to see what a slob each other is when you live together. When you are dating, it usually is under a different set of circumstances.
The real you hasn't surfaced until you have to pick up after your partner...repeatedly on a day to day basis
The cohabitation thing will bring to surface the bad side of each of us that you don't see when you are just dating.
2007-03-25 08:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Gnome 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I' am not married but the the relationship changes when you are married because now the individuals are committed to one another legally and are merging their lives completely. They can't do what they want, they have the stress of keeping the relationship fun and exciting, financial issues, work related stress, managing the household with children, and being faithful and honest. It is different when you are dating because you are somewhat independent and self-sufficient, but you are a partnership with marriage.
2007-03-25 08:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Responsibility to one another. Staying Faithful. And Keeping it as fun as when you first met. That is some hard stuff to do when you are commited. Not to mention the thought of or having Children. OMG, what a headache.
This Is what I gathered from some of my friends, as I am not married.
2007-03-25 08:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is in basic terms my opinion of direction inspite of the undeniable fact that it sounds to me like he's rather frightened approximately this entire marriage factor even nevertheless i think of that he does love you and choose to marry you. he's attempting to be certain the type you experience approximately marriage and in case you particularly love him and choose to marry him. that playstation assertion you stated on the top and what he stated approximately you looking somebody greater effectual says all of it. you know, you're gonna get alot of differing responses and evaluations and that i'm not asserting that mine is the final yet while it is composed of marriage, its a extreme factor. too many people get married for the incorrect motives and not married for the spectacular ones. Marriage is a dedication of the midsection. in case you do in comparison to somebody for the time of the thick and the thin, then one has to contemplate whether its particularly love. he's in certainty scared which you will end loving him the two now or later in case you 2 % to get married. you're appropriate nevertheless, you 2 are variety of youthful to get married yet people have married youthful and at your age and are nevertheless very in love and married!! in case you adore him, enable him know the type you experience and if he nevertheless makes those comments, ask him to tell you methods he feels. you 2 ought to take a seat and characteristic HIM cope along with his thoughts. communique is rather considerable in each and every relationship!! talk with one yet another!!
2016-10-19 21:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, people change when they get married. Its better just to have a significant other and never get married. Because people totally change after marriage. Thats why all these crazy men are killing their wives.
2007-03-25 08:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because after tasting so many different bodies its difficult to stay faithful with one. But no body will accept this reason because we are hypocrites.
2007-03-25 08:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All committed relationships take work. You have to learn how to compromise, become flexible and really listen. They are learned traits. If you stop working on it then you'll have issues.
2007-03-25 08:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by avalonlee 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope it won't be for my bf and me.
I'm going to work to keep it easy and loving, but that's not WORK, it's committment.
2007-03-25 08:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋