Hi, I have a friend that I have known for a little over 2 yrs. He always used to be calling me, but not anymore I always have to call him. We hangout once in awail now, but not as much as we used to. ok, so here is the problem about 2 weeks ago I called him up to chat about everything and see how he was doing. But after like 15 minutes, he said 'that he was doing something' and if I could call back tomarrow, but I told him I had plans to go out with some friends. So he was like ok well I guess I will talk to you later then and so he said goodbye. I waited a week and then called him, but he didn't pick up the phone so I left a message saying, that I was wondering what he was up too and for him to give me a call back. And he never called me back so again I waited about 4 days saying, that it was me again and asking if everything was ok and for him to give me a call. Well its been about two weeks now since I have talked to him, and he still hasn't called me. why??? i need advice.
2007-03-25 08:16:12 · 13 answers · asked by kristy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He told me that he, ''wants me to call him, and would love for me to call him everyday''. So I am not at all stalking him, I am just trying to be a friend. He hardly has any friends just his job and some roomates he lives with. He had been going threw a lot of hard times drinking and loosing his girlfriend that he loved very much. So I have always tryed to be there and to help him out. So why is he ignoring me now? So it's like he just uses me then throws me out like trash??? Doesn't make any sense
2007-03-25 09:24:17 · update #1
Just leave it now and stop worrying. Give it a couple of weeks and then leave a message such a postcard to say that you're thinking of him and that you hope that he's ok. A sign of depression is to avoid friends and close yourself off so it is imporatnmt to show that you're there for him in case this is what he is suffering from, however if he is trying to drop a hint that he doesn't want to be in touch a postcard/ card is an easy way to show that you care and not to lose face.
2007-03-25 10:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by sare 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would phone & leave a message saying for him to get in touch with you when he needs to talk, that way you are not pestering him & leaving the door open for him when he needs you, give him a bit of space, He will phone you when he needs you, not unless he has found his soul mate Good luck
2007-03-25 21:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Janet C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a pastime of cat and mouse here!!! in basic terms you would be waiting to %, tell him that it is undemanding to be acquaintances. that's all as you're actually seeing somebody!!! good success.
2016-10-19 21:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you tried going round and calling his house? ooooor have you tried calling some one that knows him if you have then he might be organising somthing for you wich he dont want you to find out or he really dont like you :/
2007-03-25 08:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently he is busy or he does not want to talk to you at this time. If he is truly a friend--he wil call when he is ready!
2007-03-25 08:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's involved in a covert spy mission where he has to lose contact with everyone for a little while. or he's hanging out with other hotter chicks
2007-03-25 08:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to stop calling him he probably doesn't want to be bothered leave it alone .....your starting to be the stalker friend and thats not good give him some time to call you back
2007-03-25 08:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by flyest_f3mal3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're on the verge of being a stalker. Leave him alone.
2007-03-25 08:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he proberbly having a little romance and doesnt want you around cramping his style men want to be a bit more than mates sometimes
2007-03-25 08:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, uve been ditched.
2007-03-25 08:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by 360spin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋