We have been good friends for almost a year. I met a guy that she is not to thrilled to see me dating, and with that comes less time with her. I have never cancelled on her when we had set plans, and I have already apologized for not hanging out as often as we did before (usually Friday or Saturday night 1x a week).
This weekend I needed help to move and a while ago she offered to help. She did not show up at all or even call to say she was not coming.
Today i ask, what happened yesterday, and her reply was, I had 4 million things to do...
2007-03-25 08:02:16 · 20 answers · asked by Asian Mami 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
With friendship comes forgiveness. Maybe she really did have a lot going on. Maybe she forgot. Maybe the reason she didn't show up has nothing to do with your new guy. Tell her that you were disappointed that she didn't come through for her, but don't hold a grudge. Also, have you tried hanging out all together. If she gets to know him better, or sees that he treats you well and makes you happy, that might change her opinion of him.
2007-03-25 08:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by cilsavon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she's jealous of the lost time with you. Does she know this guy your with and have a reason to dislike him, or does she just dislike him because he's taking you away from her? I think as time passes it will get better, she's just hurt right now, but when you meet someone and decide to be with them, friends naturally will come in second. It's just the way life is.
2007-03-25 15:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by gone2soon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that your friend is jealous. you should have a talk with her and let her know that know matter what or were life may take you that you will always be here for her . invite her some time to do something with you and your boyfriend. A real friend will understand and still be there for you.
2007-03-25 15:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by christina b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be telling the truth i mean u didnt ditch her or anything but u just havent made plans u should just try to hang out more and treat her equaly with ur bf but dont act the ame way cuz tht would be weird lol good luck?!
2007-03-25 15:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by LOVE IT<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would be mad at my friend. Sounds like your friend needs to grow up and see the facts of life here. I would also let her know how I felt. Her telling you she had 4 million things to do is crap.
2007-03-25 15:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Babie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
say sry to her and tell her that u realli still luv her(as a friend no homo lol) but since u do have a bf u need sum time to share wit him too. dont be mad at her 100% but dont cut her alot of slack either cuz hse needs to understand that u have a bf and alll ur time cant be focused obn her anymore. tell her and try to get her to understand, and maybe sum of ur dates wit him she could tag along, nott all the time but every now and then to make her feel specail. and try to make a lil more time for her ont he weekends but dont cut him out of ur schedule cuz of her. bestz luck
2007-03-25 15:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your friend is jealous and feels she's losing you as a friend. Maybe she needs a really good talking to from you.
2007-03-25 15:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't be mad because just think that she felt bad when you hooked up w/ the guy. Imagine yourself as her. You'd feel the same way and probably wouldn't want her to be mad at you. But talk w/ her and ask her how she feels.
2007-03-25 15:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jenna 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yup, you should be mad. Anyone that makes a promise to help you move then doesn't show up isn't worthy of your friendship. Sounds like to me her jealousy over your boyfriend might be a lesbian tendency
2007-03-25 15:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by WILLIAM R T 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what i think is that your friend was probably jealous and hurt since you were probably spending more time with him and less with her. even though you apolized many times, that was probably her way to get back at you for not spending as much time with her
2007-03-25 15:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by tilly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋