Is is really bad when you have sex alot????? I mean I already have one kid and I am only 16 which I know is to young but I am addicted in a weird sort of way so how do I stop????
2007-03-25 07:49:30 · 23 answers · asked by Have_A_BIG_PROBLEM 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i hope you've started using protection
2007-03-25 09:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by markie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, you're a normal teen with raging hormones. since you had the baby so young you should have learned the consequences. I was 17 with my first, 19 with my second and was not able to keep her so i gave her up to open adoption, I had my third son at 20. After the third, i had an IUD , and haven't been pregnant since. If I could have had my tubes tied I would have but they have a law that you have to have one child and be 21. I think I was overqualified. Stop your cycle of babies NOW or else you will be 19 with 3 kids and pregnant with a new one, barefoot and pregnant living off of welfare because you have no other skills than sex and having babies. STOP PLEASE FOR YOUR FUTURE AND THAT OF YOUR CHILD. GIVE THIS ONE BETTER LIFE THAN WHAT YOU HAVE.
2007-03-25 15:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's bad. You should try to stop. Your lucky you only got a kid you could have gotten a kid and a sexually transmitted dease. I know what you mean by a kind of addicition. Happened to me had sex once and was like addicted but you can get over it you just have to set you mind to it and try hard. Also if you are a religous person ask your god(s) for help.
2007-03-25 22:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by I'm a female 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and figure out why you have sex so much? If it's because you truly get sexual satisfaction from it then maybe you are addicted which is recognised by doctors and maybe you could try satisfying yourself instead BUT maybe sex makes you feel wanted (or loved) ?? maybe you have low self esteem ?? If it is that sort of answer then sex is not the right thing. You should still try and talk to someone. Email me if you want to.
2007-03-29 11:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have a program called SA sexaholics anonymous and it is anonymous.You can find it in your phone book.At your age you really should slow down as your body is still growing and you could do permanent damage to your vagina and uterus.If you have sex ,have safe sex use a condom every time as well as a back up such as the pill or the depo shot.Your to young to be throwing your body away like this .Please seek some help.Sex is a normal function of the human nature but it seems you believe you are abusing the privilidge.
2007-03-25 15:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by dymond 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Determination. Sex is not a need. Find something to do. With a kid in your life why don't you spend some time with him/her. You no longer have the luxury of being selfish. There is someone in this world that is completely depend on you. While you're on your little quest, grow up and get a job....
2007-03-25 15:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by Saizo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that at 16 it's quite normal having great sexual craving!
I know mature women having same wish even.
Since you already have had sex, enjoy now with no problem.
On the other hand it's not normal having a baby at 16 and you only should get care about others possible pregnancies.
2007-03-25 15:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get your tubes tied. Think about your kid more than sex. Yes it is really bad when a person who is not married has sex alot. What will happen to your baby if you get AIDS?
2007-03-25 16:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in the first place why did you loose your virginity you are way too young! I suggest you get into school, activities, friends and sports have fun being a kid while you have the chance.
2007-03-25 14:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. do you want more kids?
its not necessarily bad u kno.. that you are having alot of sex.. just make sure its with only one guy u love or your self esteem will later plunge when u realize these guys just wanted sex from you. my advice would be to just get a dildo or a vibrator and wait till u are a bit older.. also i suggest using the pill and condomns because u dont want to ruin your whole life .. by like getting hiv from one stupid one night stand kind of thing.
just be responsible and you'll be fine is all
2007-03-25 15:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by jersey_689 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ever heard of a chastity belt? Sexual desire is all a matter of will power and self discipline which obviously you lack! keep your pants on because i don't want to support you and your 20 kids for the rest of my life! Keep your clothes on go to school and make something of your life!
2007-03-25 16:12:42 · answer #11 · answered by llllll_amanda_lllllll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋