sheeeesh, im so insecure of my breast that I do not want to take off my top while having sex. My b/f says i look great but I dont think so. what should I do?
2007-03-25 07:46:53 · 11 answers · asked by Jo,jo 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You will get used to it gradually..
I'm sure your breasts are beautiful...
You are just a bit shy...
2007-03-25 07:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just modest, although I don't think I have met a man to date who is. I always "cover up" even when I am at an all girls sleepover, everyone just wips off their clothes and thinks nothing of it, I hide in a corner or go to the bathroom, I am just that way and it sounds like you are too....don't beat yourself up over it, it is who you are and probably makes yo all that much more attractive in some ways.
You may or may not be this way for a long time......hey it's you, don't let it get in the way of enjoying yourself......sex is only two individuals......and you are one of them....don't do things you are not comfortable with......JMO....
2007-03-25 07:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to the gym and changing/showering in front of other people. It's terrifying at first, but eventually you come to realize that nobody is paying attention to you and that it's all your head. Everybody has something they are worried about showing off but we are all just people and shame is is just something we make up to hurt ourselves. If your boyfriend thinks you look good then let it go and be free, sex will be way more fun if you just let it all hang out.
2007-03-25 07:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by LexLimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried taking your shirt off under the covers with the lights off, then working up to above the covers with the lights off, then with the lights on?
Touch will lead to sight, I assure you. Let him touch you and soon you will be okay with him seeing you.
There is nothing wrong with you. I'm sure your breasts are perfect (all are unique and wonderful regardless of size or shape) and if your boyfriend says you look great you should trust him.
2007-03-25 07:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dan X 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just gotta yank it off and go for it. Sometimes I have that problem with undies, but as long as I know that we are going to have sex then I just take them off.
2007-03-25 07:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by closetcoon_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course your boyfriend tells you, you look great, he wants you to take it off.......
but you should just live with what you got....I'm sure you have a great *** or face or whatever that you are really proud of....no one is perfect!!!
you think the girls with the big bazoonkas don't have problems?
;-)
2007-03-25 07:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a fear of it, that means your not ready.
So wait til you are ready.
Then you'll have no problem. =D
2007-03-25 07:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Emiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be comfortable with yourself hun! You are most likely very pretty..go for it hun!
2007-03-25 10:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by shannon_bi girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that breasts are fantastic.
2007-03-25 07:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by MONK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with someone you know loves you and it will be easy.
2007-03-25 07:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by bernel1403 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋