This happened twice yesterday on a trip to Target and happens every time I go out. I have gained the proper amount of weight and only have 1 baby. I'm just "all baby". I am retaining water, have carpel tunnel, now have PUPPP, and really want to hurt these insensitive people. The ones that come up and ask me if I'm having triplets are also annoying too. Any suggestions. Humiliation for these people would be nice :)
2007-03-25 07:40:27 · 16 answers · asked by lostmetalchicken 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell them " At least I have an excuse to be fat"
2007-03-25 07:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by surffsav 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've been having the same problem!! I am 39 weeks pregnant.. and 19 years old. I haved gained 33lbs throughout my pregnancy and all in my belly!! i can still fit in my size 0 jeans.. Just cant get them around my waist! haha.. So i look like a have a HUGE basketball in my tummy.. But I went to the mall 2 days ago with my family, and a bunch of younger kids.. probably around my age .. looked @ me and just started laughing.. Well i am far enough along that im just LISTEN YOU LITTLE ******* cause im beyond ready to pop!! So i sat down with my family @ the table in the food court and they just kept staring @ me and i had enough cause they dont know what us girls go through being pregnant! its some hard stuff.. So i went up to them and asked them if they had something funny to share? and they were shocked i went up to them.. And i said atleast i know i can take on responsibilities unlike little immature kids like you so if i was you i would shut up before you see a really mean preggoo! haha
That was my experience @ one time!
Another was i was @ walmart and this lady says "oh you have to be carrying twins" I was like actually no its jsut one boy. And she says to me "oh must be a big boy then" and i said in a nice but yet rude way, I wont know until the day he comes out thanks, started to walk and said, I still weigh in my 130's Thank you very much!
Haha i guesss enough is jsut enough for me! Just ignore them,.. i think we are adorbale pregnant girls that get it all in the belly.. cause from the back you cant even tell im pregnant!
good luckk
2007-03-25 09:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uurrgh i am the same way! i was 5'6 128lbs before i got preggers and now at almost 35 weeks i am 153. i've gained the right amount of weight and people ask me if i am haing twins especailly people who know nothing about having babies. gosh i am 8 1/2 m,onths how big do you htink i am going to be i have a human inside of me ! i know whhat you mean. then there are the people that i like who say you're not very big at all for 8 months:) i just look bigger because i was pretty thin before
2007-03-25 07:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have just never understood why pregnant women are seen as "easy" targets. The questions that morons will ask is amazing. If you saw a person that was just fat would you dream of asking them their weight? Or a person that was retarded and asking in public what's wrong with him/her? It is almost like when you are preg you become "public" fair game. Last week 2 different people put their hands on my stomach in the grocery store. I mean come on is it EVER ok to invade someone's personal space without asking, and especially a stranger!!! I told them that if they wanted to become that familiar with me, then let's go to the diaper aisle and they could buy the Pampers.
"Why do you want to know?" or "How will knowing affect YOUR day?" are some that I have used...
2007-03-25 07:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Proud Mommy of 6 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about "No, I'm not having triplets, it's just the one baby, but I can understand why you might like to know you aren't alone." (Most people will be too think headed to get that this is an insult until you are far away lol)
2007-03-25 08:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always had this happen to me with my daughter.. Nothing I tried worked so I just ignored them. I know it is hard to do when they walk up to you, but try.. People finally got the hint with me that I didnt care to hear it.. And I was only about 34 weeks when my daughter was born.. Just got HUGE... I really hope things get better for you... Express yourself and dont be afraid of hurting there feeling.. They hurt yours...
2007-03-25 11:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by auntietawnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get the same stuff all the time...i get it from strangers and friends and family and it can be very hurtful...i've been asked if i was having twins a couple of times and all i do is say "nope pretty sure there's just one"....people can be very ignorant...are you getting this question at all "when you gonna pop that thing out?" or "Oh my god your gonna burst!"...it sucks...but seriously the best thing to do is ignore them and if they approach you than answer their questions because most people probably don't realise the they're hurting your feelings
2007-03-25 08:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Laree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
needless to say you probably did not keep a different sufficient eye on her. you ought to be nervous. not in basic terms is inbreeding a foul theory because it multiplies the probable hood of inherited genetic ailments yet your canine is in basic terms a domestic dog herself! Get her to the vet and characteristic them do an emergency abort/spay and on an identical time as you're at it have the male neutered. there is not any reason this ought to have befell. Your woman ought to die on an identical time as whelping.
2016-10-19 21:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threaten to hit them....with your pregnancy hormones you could claim "temporary insanity." Just kidding!!
Just know that you are not the only one!! Many of us get teased, leactured, etc. because once someone sees that you are pregnant they take it as an invitation to criticize you for some reason (your hair is colored....your drinking from a Starbucks cup....your holding a purse that could be too heavy...etc.)
I'd give them an icy glare and warn them about the dangers of pregnancy hormones.
2007-03-25 07:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by Maegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was pregnant with my first child i think the comment that pissed me off the most was one day i was just walking out of the building where i had my ob/gyn appointment and i was like 7 months pregnant and i look very young for my age and some old lady said to me "how old are you, like 12!?" i was f*cking livid! i asked her what are you like 100? she just gave me a nasty look and walked away. i don't know what it is but old people seem to have a problem with me when i'm pregnant. i've had two other confrontations with old people with this pregnancy!
2007-03-28 06:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by moore_256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... I am not very good at come backs or anything so knowing me I would say "Haha, shut up" sarcasticly and give them a weird look. I told you I was bad at this stuff lol.
Oh that one about "atleast I have an excuse to be fat" was a good one.
2007-03-25 07:45:59 · answer #11 · answered by Brie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋