we are lookingfor some one to carry a baby for us
2007-03-25 07:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by carol i 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Again as this the second time I have seen same question I just can not believe it ...How someone who perhaps you are desperate and I do feel for you in that way can come on a site such as yahoo answers and ask such a serious question about a human life leaves me feeling Gobsmacked I truly am sorry for your plight if this question is serious .
2007-03-25 07:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
I know this must be frustrating, I went through this with my sister. I had two children, she was supposedly unable to conceive....(didn't have periods) after long agonizing hours and days and weeks, I agreed to be a surrogate for her....my husband objected, but I didn't care. She had wanted a child all her life and many tests and hundreds of thousands of dollars, 2 operations later, it was not working.....so I agreed, it was to be her husbands sperm art. inseminated.....within about 5 weeks of the absolute agreement, she became pregnant, it was very strange. It was a blessing, her child is now 15 and everyone is happy.
In your case, can you appeal to a friend or relative....can you afford t pay the medical expenses, can the person you find be dependable and not back out.....you have to understand that it doesn't always go right, the ONLY reason I agreed was I knew she would be a fantastic mother and that this child would be loved....I even had to go to some counseling to make the choice and had to look at it as never my child but hers.....
I would start at home and go from there.....but also remember, there are many kids out there who are not infants but still need good homes none the less....JMO good luck
2007-03-25 14:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how much it must hurt you to know that you can't have children.You should know in your heart that you will find the perfect person to be a surrogate mother for you.And I am sure that when you do you will be the greatest mother anyone could imagine.Just be careful with the person you do choose because it would be extremely awful for someone to do you wrong.If you do not choose to go through an agency be careful not to choose that one that just wanted to take the money and then the baby.I was going to be a surrogate mother to a very close Friend of mine and right before we started the proses we found out that she was pregnant.So everything works out in the end just need to keep your chin up and have faith.If you ever need someone to talk to just to chat or whatever you can talk to me my email adders is clwmrg@yahoo.com.
2007-03-30 13:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.surrogacy.com/
There are agencies that deal with matching up surrogate moms and intended parents or you can ask a trusted relative or friend. Make sure you contact a lawyer that specializes in surrogacy since depending on where you live there are different laws. Best of luck.
2007-03-25 14:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carol i
Good luck in your search - My daughter is 29 and I was so lucky to have her in my life - for someone like yourself that would love a child I think it is wonderful when someone is prepared to carry a baby for 9 months and then to hand them over.
I am too old but I am sure someone will help you - unfortunately it will possibly cost you a lot of money - Good luck to you in your search.
2007-03-25 14:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jean D 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wish you all the luck in the world in finding a surrogate. Sorry I can't help as I'm ttc myself but I hope your dream comes true :)
2007-03-26 05:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Misshopeful 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered adoption? I don't think I could go through all the pain and heartache should the surrogate mom change her mind...it is always a possibility.
2007-03-30 05:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Shaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UCONN MEDICAL MAY BE ABLE TO HELP ITS IN FARMINGTON CONNECTICUT.They always have add asking people to donate there eggs so other can have children they pay like 7,000 to people for eggs.i am sure in that department which i not sure of the name they could help you fine someone.just call an ask.(860)679-2000 that's the main # they could help you from there.
2007-03-30 14:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have always thought about being a surrogate, but never knew where to start. Where do you live?
2007-03-25 14:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I so badly would love to do it for you, but my boyfriend asks that I don't because he would get attached to easily. Sorry, hope someone can help!
2007-03-25 14:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mare 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋