me adn my so called "friend" always fight, i dont really think its worth it though, i dont like to fight, and i dont think it is worth even KNOWING her sumtimes, wht should i do? and plz nothing sappy.
2007-03-25 06:59:12 · 13 answers · asked by deleted 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you fight all the time then you are obviously not friends..If you are not happy then stop hanging around her only you control your happiness..
2007-03-25 07:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Amanda,
You should probably fade apart from your "friend".
By that, I mean you should see her gradually less and less,
with longer periods of absense between visits. Start having
fewer activities together, maybe she will get the "hint" that you
really don't care to be in her company anymore. And if she
asks you about it, tell her straight up, "I can no longer stand
your constant fighting attitude, so please find another friend."
.......Hey, Amanda, I know that sounds harsh, but it's not near
as bad as combatting her every day. That just gives both of
you bad attitudes and stress you don't need.
2007-03-25 14:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking "spirited conversation"?, or are we getting nowhere, arguing for the sake of arguing. You are staying in one place, and need to move on to someone who is more intuitive to your ideas, and someone that you trust and enjoy the company of. She will find another person to debate with.
Think Happy.. Move on....
2007-04-02 13:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by gypsyworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to her, don't fight back, just stop talking altogether. when she argues with you just say "ok" or "alright" to everything she says.. find some less dramatic friends, you'll be happy you did in the end.
2007-03-25 14:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by gina_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i would have to stop being her friend. ya'll chose to be in eachothers lives so make it great. you only have one life to live so i suggest that you be happy and you should not have to deal with fighting with a "friend." good luck!
2007-03-25 14:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by lc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new friend dhe isnt worth it if she was your girl then you guys wouldnt fight so much
2007-03-25 14:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jakele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them go there not worth it if they fight all the time!
2007-04-01 16:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Emms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...its typical for fights..but i can totally understand..trust me..don't give up..talk to her...you did already..then shes not worth it!!! Unless its been a long relationship....then idk..its hard to give up somehting so precious..
2007-03-25 18:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsayyy ツ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe b/c you guys dont have anything in common. or you guys are not ment to be friends
2007-04-01 22:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Varsity girl!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it happened to me also... so i just got a new friend... and then she finally missed me... and she came back to me... and now we are best friends again
2007-04-01 21:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋