HELP am so fed up?

Question

am fed up i am so depressed the other day i have found a lump in my breast told people on here they told me dont worry i try not to thanks for all your advice but it still stays with me i have not told my husband how i feel but if he was not marryed to me or i didnt have my daughter i would prob kill myself i know this sounds bad but i cannot help it what can i do

Answer 1

You need to get a proper diagnosis. I know it must be very scary for you, but it is better to get this lump checked out by your doctor.

There are many causes for a lump in the breast, and not all of them are serious. There could be a simple explanation for this, so it is best that you find out what the cause is.

You should phone your G.P's surgery and ask for an appointment. You can ask for a female doctor if you would find this more comfortable.

There is lots of information about depression at http://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/depression.php#
If you think you might be depressed, please talk to someone - there is help available.

There is a type of depression called reactive depression, this type of depression is triggered by a traumatic, difficult or stressful event, and people affected will feel low, anxious, irritable, and even angry.

Please talk to your doctor.

Answer 2

why do you think so little of yourself, you got a hubby and a wee one to worry about too, finding lumps is traumatic but isnt you still being here better, imagime how those who care dearly for you would suffer if you acted on these morbid thoughts, get yourself treated, get better-it may be nothing to fret over-and have a ball. we all rooting for you..

Answer 3

Please go to see your doctor you have to tell your family to get help.No one can help you if you don't tell then that you need help you must tell your husband he will be your strength and help get you through this very upsetting time. i wish you all the best keep in touch you are not the first lady on this site to have a problem like this we are all your friends.