I have been liveing with a family and I have been watching their children and the girl of the couple loves to run around nude and she has threatened to go outside naked.
Well so what I have had to do is grab her and send her back to her room and force her to put her clothing back on and then she takes it off again.
I was grabbed by the neck by their dad and he said that his girl said in a dream Stop touching me.
He is the type of person however who has told lies on me and he said he was going to call his wife and tell her what the girl said.
Anyway he took me back to where the girl was and asked her has Jermain ever played with you down there and she said no. what should i do next.
2007-03-25 06:40:28 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Follow up question?
remember i asked a question about being falsely accused of child molesting. I forgot to say the wife has not heard what the husband has said yet and her kids have a tendcy to lie and just like i was watching them and they accused me of throwing a remote control and busting it well the daughter was there who acualy threw it i proclamed my innocene and the wife said jermain your lying there is no way my girls can throw that far. in a nutshell she said since u have lied to us before i am going to beleave my girls over you.(i have not lied their girls have lied on me.) what should i do after hearing those words and thinking about the abuse thing it kind of scares me.
2007-03-25 07:45:53 · update #1
yeah this all happened yesterday and the wife is yet to come home. the daughter is 4 and the one who has lied on me is 8.
This family can not afford to hire a lawyer and I can not eaither. the strange thing is is that this same person left me home(i am home right now) with the same child he said i abused who is laying down.
I am not a sick person or a pervert.
2007-03-25 07:50:52 · update #2
get out quick
2007-03-25 07:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Emily. He is most likely the one abusing the girl. I would suggest contacting Social Services and explaining to them what you have stated here. I know that is a scary thing to do as one never knows if they will believe you or not. If you do nothing the chances are far greater that you will end up being the one investigated and possibly charged. Good luck.
Edit: I don't see where anyone who answered your question has accused you of anything. Quite the opposite. The vast majority of these answers are giving you great advice. You are in a very difficult situation. With your financial situation and your living arrangements it is apparent that you feel you have limited options. If you can possibly find somewhere else to live then you should do it now, even if you have to live in your car. Contact Social Services first thing tomorrow unless you feel the girl is in imminent danger from her dad, then call 911. Social Services will investigate the family and also may be able to help you find a place to live and help you with food, job search, etc. You need to be the one that contacts them first. If the dad accuses you first then you are left in the position of having to prove you are innocent. You also need to do this to protect the girl from further abuse.
2007-03-25 06:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by 1dayatatime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you living with a couple one of which has told lies on you?Sounds like maybe HE is the one who is messing with his daughter.Why does he allow her to run around nude for?This may be her acting out.Move to a homeless shelter YESTERDAY before you go to jail for something you havent done.Leave a not for his wife where she works telling her what has been going on and thats why you moved out and tell her to ask her daughter if her dad has touched her down there (tell her to ask the child when he is not around).
2007-03-25 06:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't doing what the SAY you are doing, I would suggest removing yourself from that atmosphere all together. Obviously, these people can get you into a lot of UNWANTED trouble. The father doesn't trust you as much as he SHOULD with his children and you are risking your LIFE all together. Imagine you end up going to jail over this and the whole time you were innocent. Stop the probem before it starts. Get out of there and find a new place to live.
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2016-10-20 10:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you didn't do it stay away from the family. You are only asking for alot of trouble. Why would you even wanna hang out and babysit if he has already lied on you? Stay away or stick around and get into trouble its a easy choice but you will have to make it. Good Luck
2007-03-25 06:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in big trouble. Once accused you will be convicted in peoples hearts even if there is no evidence. Move out now and get a lawyer tomorrow and start preparing a defense. Live on the street if need be, but get out.
2007-03-25 06:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by eric l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to get away from this family, they sound kind of nutty, your just asking for trouble if u continue to live with them. maybe jail time, and u would not be the first person ever accused wrongly and put in jail, innocent people go to jail, sometimes because they make friends with the wrong people, make wrong choices, get out while u still can. the dad already has it in for u, so it would not take much.
2007-03-25 07:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well alot of little kids say things that maybe they have heard from T.V. or somewhere and of course the parents will believe it. So I think you should leave that place. Inoocent people don't deserve to be punished for things they didn't do. Alot of things like that are happening these days so be cautious...Good Luck.
2007-03-25 06:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by silknlacechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run for your live , get out of there pray to the good lord that everything will work out get some legal help why the girl is saying that u did not touch her before they brain wash her into saying that u did thats all it takes for her to say it one time sorry you is going threw something like this learn from your mistake don't do this again don't move back in no matter what they say Please!
2007-03-25 07:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by lovelylady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront his wife, and tell her what was said and assure her that you never did such things. If they dont believe you offer your resignation.
You cannot work for a couple who tells you lies.
If your really concerned, you could also call child services, and ask to send a representive down to talk to the child and document what she says that you never touched her.
2007-03-25 06:45:56 · answer #11 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋