28 yr old MALE VIRGIN - to keep or not to keep?

Question

Hi all,
Im a 28 year old male virgin and I just wanted to know what you guys think of that.

I am a virgin because I was born and raised in acountry where sex before marriage is against the religion/culture and now Im in the US where freedom flies. I had an opportunity after couple of months back to hav sex but i didnt feel like having sex with her because it was the first day I went out with her and and she wasnt really of my type.

Anyway, I still thought "hey I'd stay a Virgin until I find the right one" but this didnt work out - and living in a country like US where sex is a part of life I feel like Im not living my life to full. My thoughts about religion and being a virgin till marriage have changed. Staying a V this long has almost made me crazy. Many mood swings, highs and lows...

What do you guys think about all this?

Thanks,

thanks for the instant replies !! I think i want to have sex but with the right person. i like i dont wanna wait tille marriage because i dont know when or who im getting married to.. thanks again.

Answer 1

sex is something you have to have before you miss it
but never knowing it can be hard as every body talks about it
but if you are worried about religion maybe marriage is what you should be looking for
but if that is not your big concern i vote you find and experianced partner to share your first time
and make it
a time to remember and hopefully experience everything there is too
good luck with what ever you do but make it you decision

Answer 2

First of all, the US is suppose to be a country where you can freely practice whatever your religion is. If you are still very religious, I would still honor that until you find the right person that you wish to. Doesn't mean that you have to go out right away and lift your legs up. Doing so, may only create a name for yourself and possibly a name that your not really wanting to have. Along with all the things that you are able to catch, you never know what you will get if you decide to do something.

I guess my point is to only do what you feel comfortable doing. If your not ready to do the horizontal mambo, then don't. It's your body, and your right to do with it what you wish to. Just be yourself and the rest will follow. Follow your heart and not your head...no matter which one is talking!

Answer 3

If you want to be a virgin until you get married then go for it, although I don't see how this pertains to this section, but OK. Anyway, just do what you do, don't let anyone tell you that it is the wrong way to live.

Answer 4

Well ultimately it's your choice. You are an adult --do what you want...except don't make another 28 year old virgin movie...the first one was bad enough.