Ya see I have this friend who keeps doing stuff to hurt me and when I say that she hurt me she turns it around at me and makes her seem like the good one!
2007-03-25 05:41:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Doesn't sound like much of a friend. You need to believe in yourself and certain of your own emotions and give yourself more credibility. Your friend is hurting you, you have told her, and she continues and manipulates you into thinking she is innocent. State your feelings, know they are valid, and say either she accepts your feelings or gives up the friendship, in other words, give her your own ultimatum and stop letting her control you.
2007-03-25 05:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not sound like a friend at all... it is also possible that you have done something that hurt her so she tries to hurt you back to get even... either way this is not a healthy relationship at all. Try talking to her one more time and try to talk more about how it makes you feel when she says or does those things
like "i feel hurt when you do that because..." and listen to what she says as well. If she is still un-willing to do her part in working it out then its time to move on to new friends.
2007-03-25 05:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by missbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if my friend is self cented to just busy, she had tod me before she is trying to be the best friend that she know how to be to me, she just overwhelmed, I can she how she could be busy, with 4 girls and health problems yeah I can see how she could be overwhelmed. The differene in our friendship is she is busy with her family and I'm not busy at all. I email her and she gerts back to me when she feels like it, but it doesn't seem like she wants me to end this friendship, I don't either, but wat can I do, I ave a feeling I shouldn't give up on her, our friendship was meant to be but if we are mesnt to be friends then she has to think of me too, I email her a lot more then she emails me, she ignores me I buy her things for her and her family and she doesn't give me anything to me on holidays or even my birhday execpt last year when she took me to Chuck E. Cheese, that was super nice but on my real bithday she forgot, no email made me very sad. What make me even more sad that my Mom refuses to invite them over, I don't think my Mom likes my friend very well and I don't blame her either because she's being a self centered friend to me.
2015-07-21 12:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by smartdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend at work pull this on me. I started by saying, "You really need to take it down a notch." They kept going, so I said, "Seriously, it's time to shut up." Again, they kept pushing, so I told them, "I'm going to quit acknowledging you until you move on."
You can't force a change on someone, but if they're bringing you more pain than happiness in friendship, you deserve to be with better people.
2007-03-25 05:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Casterisk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt sound like a very good friend.
Just tell her straight up, and thenif she keeps on doingit, you could come back with revenge and do something the same to her, or you could just tell her your fed up and find new friends
2007-03-25 05:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by ampedrockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting a real friend..
2007-03-25 06:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up...She is not your friend.Friends don't treat eachother that way..
2007-03-25 05:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋