She Sleep over her friends house last week because she was somewhat drunk and she couldn't drive her car home, after going out with her friends, this is a guy that likes her for the past 2 years, but she reasured me that she has no feelings for him, she told me that she sleep in his bed and he sleep in the couch, NOT for anything but theres no way i will sleep in the couch of my own house while a girl that i liked is on my bed a little drunk, she got back home at 1pm the next day, and she went out to lunch with him 2 days later and shes been acting cold to me on the phone, she told me everything, and i asked her if something happened but she said no, Shes been hanging out with him daily till yesterday, Im 29 shes 27 were very mature and we have good careers we have great communication, and great sex, could it be that she knows shes leaving everything for me to move to me, and maybe she did it and she regrets, or did she CHEAT on me, what do u think happen???
2007-03-25 05:41:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Break it off until she is ready to resolve this.
These are not the actions of a woman who intends to be faithful. Accept this for the warning it is.
If this is how it is now it will not be much different after marriage.
Whether she did or did not bang this guy is not at issue. That she would leave the door open for that inference is a huge red flag.
I would let it be known that this behavior is totally unacceptable for any woman you will marry. Break it off and let her go for a while. Time will be the telling.
2007-03-25 06:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she did, but I'm no expert. it could be possible that he slept on the couch and let her sleep on the bed and nothing happened. I have been there before and some men will do that. The fact that she was with him so much afterward, however says something to me. Unless she is normally with him that much. I think she did and did it again a few times, and then started feeling guilty, but don't take my word for it, I could be wrong
2007-03-25 05:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by sdrlover2002 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only your fiance knows for sure. I know lots of people that would sleep on the couch and let the woman have the bed, though, so don't worry on that account. Tough situation, because you need to know that you can trust her and she needs to know that you trust her. You guys are going to have to talk...if you are this worried about this friend, then she needs to talk to you about it and the two of you need to find a way to work out, together.
It is possible that they didn't sleep together, but that he kissed her or made a move, and she is afraid to tell you for fear of losing this friend. She could be faithful, but giving off weird vibes from a situation like that...bottom line, you guys have to find a way to talk and work it out, however is best for your relationship.
2007-03-25 05:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lappet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm so very sorry this befell to you. i've got been cheated on previously and that i know how thoroughly devastating it particularly is. In all honesty, i think of the final component to do could be to bypass away him. i know it rather is an rather confusing component to do, yet while he's cheating now previously you're married, getting married ought to not exchange his habit. i know you have a new child jointly, which complicates issues, inspite of the undeniable fact that it particularly is achieveable to strengthen her on your guy or woman or in a joint custody undertaking.
2016-10-19 21:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by ramayo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all you state, YOU tell "me" if she "cheated." Behavior alone in a person does not lie. You have to remember relationships are a TWO way street, a "give" and "take" situation and ONE person is not the end of the world for you for there are plenty of fish in the sea. "Drinking" breaks up many good relationships and it will "always" create situations of mistrust, some true, many false which are NORMALLY not dealt with in sober relationships. You will either have to learn to "live" with her behaviors and ACCEPT them or decide on whose more important, YOU or HER.
2007-03-25 06:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Theban 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't sound like any great prize yourself, if you'd take advantage of a drunken woman sleeping in your bed.
Would you rather she'd driven home drunk, and possibly killed herself or someone else? You don't sound very mature to me, Hon.
No, I don't think she cheated on you. I think she's a little PO'd at you for the way YOU are handling the situation.
2007-03-25 06:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She cheated. Don't be fooled by her act of innocence. If she knows how this person feels about her, drunk or not,"her love 4 u should have brought her @$$ home!
2007-03-25 05:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by cashmere3636 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although you will find no definitive answer for this on Yahoo Answers, you can rest assured there is a high probability based on the information you provided that she slept with him.
Find yourself another girlfriend.
2007-03-25 06:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Bill 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to any conclusions. Trust is important in a relationship.
Tell your fiancee that you trust her but that you don't think it's appropriate that she spends time with this man and that if she continues doing so, she gives you reason to distrust her. If she keeps this up, be glad that you found out now before marrying her.
2007-03-25 05:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She may not hv slept with him. But looks like her heart is taking a turn for the left. She wl never admit how she feels for him, but her coldness towards you answers everything. I have a friend just like her. Until her boyfriend installed a spy cam, everything was revealed. I mean, everything....
2007-03-25 05:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋