We all know of kids and adults who have horrific physical, accidental or emotional issues and try to reslove why them, what have then done wrong?...Is it fate or the unlucky few who have a life of hell and why? Makes you wonder and the answers will escape us until we are in the final moments of life...Think of these words!
2007-03-25 05:12:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Life isn't fair so that we have something to look forward to in death. Some say you go through hard things to prepare you for greater things, kind of like hard work builds the muscles, hard problems build the brain, hard life builds character.
Actually, sometimes the people going through the worst complain the least. If you have time to complain, you have it pretty good.
2007-03-25 05:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by dude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a religious person so don't take me as one when I say this, but I truely think that everything happens for a reason. You don't get to decided what horrible accidents are going to happen throughout your life fate does. But you do get to decide if you are going to overcome it which will make you a stronger person, or let it run you down and swallow you up, which you will never truely recover from it. It's not fair but sh*t happens you know? Now a lot of things have happend to me in my lifetime and I'm still young. I lost my brother at a very young age, my mother walked out on her 3 remaining kids leaving my father to raise 3 kids after losing a son, then my father passes away leaving me feeling alone in this world, but I know that I had to overcome it and overcomming it has made me a stronger person. I could have let depression take over but I wanted to be stronger than that. So the end result is your choice...are you going to be strong or let it swallow you in depression?
2007-03-25 05:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to wonder too.... have you considered Karma?
If you were mean & evil in a past life & didn't make restitution, you have to make restitution in this life--and you can't wimp out; ie, suicide is not an answer because if one committs suicide, they STILL have to 'pay the piper' in the NEXT life!!
If you suffered in a past life, you'll have it easier in this life.! Overly simplified, of course, but it's the only thing that makes sense to me.!
2007-03-25 05:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by yoohoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Release it man, and pray. Pray that you can't handle it anymore and you need help. I did that in life and death situations, Our FATHER responses to our burdens are always there. All you have to do is pray and trust. In times when no person is able to help.
2007-03-25 05:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dosage 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fair or not it's lifes problems & overcoming them which makes one stronger.
2007-03-25 05:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by infidel-louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question provokes some thought, however I still don't know what you mean by "life so hard for me". Message me if you need to chat.
2007-03-25 05:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by LanceMiller77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋