He keeps stopping to wipe me dry because he says it's way too wet. I do wet very wet to a dripping point. Is that bad? Is there something wrong with me? My girlfriend says she has to spit on hers or use lube 'cuz that isn't her case ... humm, I am worried now.
2007-03-25 04:49:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
He obviously wants more friction because it feels good to him, but that would feel painful to you. Try squeezing your PC muscle during intercourse to give him a different feeling and see if that helps. Otherwise there is really nothing you can do.
2007-03-25 05:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're supposed to be wet. Infact, that's why they sell lube, for women that can't produce it on their own.
By wiping you dry, you're boyfriend is being inconsiderate. He wants friction but it could cause you pain and even tear you.
It sounds like he doesn't know what he's doing. Maybe you need to discuss it with him because he seems sorta new to the game so to speak. Any male I've ever known as always said the more wet the better.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. But there is something wrong with him if he can't feel sensation on his penis through natural lube. Maybe he has nerve damage, he may want to go to the doctor.
2007-03-25 05:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rayvin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answers so far. Your boyfriend just needs to chill. So what if he has to dry you off now & then? All that means is you are enjoying him. He should be proud of that and not complain about it. If he continues and will not accept it, then maybe you do need someone else who will. I used to be in your friend's shoes, where I needed extra lube. Now, I'm just like you- if not worse. :-) It's a good thing. NOT a bad, embarrasing, or shameful thing. Be proud of who you are and the traits you have. Stay Sweet!
2007-03-25 06:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Subby72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is very strange. Wet is good. Feels good. Lubes good. Sex is good. Dry is bad. Get a new boyfriend and dump this lousy lover and complainer.
2007-03-25 04:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and I kinda feel the same way your bf does. If I get too wet, it feels like there is not enough friction. So I like to be a little drier. In porn, it seems like they think the wetter, the better. Also, don't forget your kegel exercises.
2007-03-25 04:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by amomentofperfection 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. People spend lots of money to do what you do naturally. Your body creates this for a reason, it is a lubricant and a sign that you are aroused. Without that lubricant, sex would be very uncomfortable..
2007-03-25 04:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wet is good. it means ur aroused so well u wet and that ur healthy. dry is not good as it can be painful. i get too wet too and thats the case, just wipe it. there is nothing wrong with you.
2007-03-25 04:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by mela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your B/F should enjoy what he has and stop complaining.
Dont worry about a thing, your level of arousal should be exciting to your bf and he should stop being so selfish.
2007-03-25 04:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by missourim43 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My thought is that there's nothing wrong with YOU, but maybe with HIM. If he masturbates with too-tight a fist, he might be used to really tight, really dry stimulation. That would be his fault. He needs to stop masturbating for a few weeks so his dick can get sensitive again....and then masturbate lightly after that.
2007-03-25 05:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by boingo82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about this thing girl....its just natural that your very wet because you're still young......i dont know if your b/f can afford to have sex with dry vagina if you are already a member of señior citizen........
2007-03-25 06:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by wawa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋