Please help me!!!?

Question

Im 14 and im pregnant. What do i do??? My mom will kill me if she finds out!

Answer 1

You have to tell your Mum, you have no choice. I know your scared but you need to remember that you're dealing with a real person growing inside of you.
If you're too scared to tell her to her face, write it in a letter and wait for her to approach you. I'm sure she won't react the way you expect anyway.
Do it now, you don't need to be under extra stress when you're pregnant. Once it's done, you can plan your future and will feel loads better.
Good luck.

Answer 2

Yoo Need To Tell Her Thats The Best Thing For Your Relationshop As A Bet She Doesnt Want To Hear It Off Somone Else Than Yoo

My Best Friend Was In The Same Sistuation She Told Her Mum & Yet She Was Disappointed She Said She Was Support Her Very Much

Have Yoo Told The Father Of The Baby ?

Good Luck & Hope Everything Goes Ok

Answer 3

You need to tell your. Yes she will go mad and shout and scream but once she has calmed down she will be supportive and you will find her support a great comfort to you. She will also help you to decide what to do about your pregnancy. My sister get pregnant at 14 and she was terrified of telling our mum but after the shouting, my mum really supported her and she really shocked my sister by how much she was there for her. My sister said that she doesn't know how she would have coped without my mum's support and guidance.
Good luck hun, I won't bereate you as I am sure some people have. What's done is done.

Answer 4

Hey im sure she wont kill you.

Think of it this way, imagine you are 40 and your child is fourteen, she ends up pregnant, would you want to know,

Of course you would. Im sure she will be more understanding than you think.

You need to decide if you want to keep this child or not. and if so start seeking out a midwife.

Sure your young, but the sooner you tell her, the sooner you can get all your familys support behind you. Just keep a clear head, and sit them down in the living room and tell them.

There is lots of support out there for you.

Good luck whatever you decide
Hope this helps

Answer 5

do you have someone else you could tell first? like an aunt, or big sister, or adult friend? some one you know won't *kill you*?
if you can tell them and ask them to come with you when you tell your mum, it might make it a bit easier. you'll have someone else to support you, and your mum is less likely to *explode* if there is someone else there.
and you are going to have to tell her. 'cos you might be able to hide a bump for a few months, but you can't hide a baby!!
even if you want to have an abortion (which theoretically you could do without her knowing about it) it's one hell of a secret to carry around with you. and not telling her would just poison your relationship with her. you'd walk around always being scared of her finding out. and i'm sure she'd be an awful lot angrier about that than about you telling her now.

for most of us mums, our teenage daughter getting pregnant is one of the last things we'd want for her (though i can think of worse...). we hate the idea, because basically, we want the best for our kids... but like lots of these things, the idea of it is often worse than the reality, and when we're faced with it, we deal with it much better than anyone expected.

i would guess that your mum may well be pretty angry to start with. she'll probably be disappointed in you. but she will, more than likely come round to supporting you. because, basically, she will want the best for you. and *the best* for a 14 year old girl, is not throwing her and her baby out on the street!

you have options here. whether you decide to have an abortion, to have the baby and have it adopted, or to keep the baby depends on how you feel about it, and what practical support you can get with the baby while you are at school.
it's much, much better to tell your mum sooner rather than later, so that you have time to think about all these things and make your decisions carefully, rather than leave it until you have to make the decision about an abortion in a big rush, or it's too late for that....

good luck. whatever you decide. :)

Answer 6

You really need to tell her darling, you are going to need her support whatever you decide to do about this in the long run. If you feel like you can't tell her face to face then write her a letter. You just really need to let her know. I was 17 when I got pregnant and I was absolutely terrified about telling my mum, but she didn't react like I thought she would and she gave me a lot of support when my daughter was born, emotionally, financially and babysittery! You need your Mum darlin, you can't do this on your own.

Answer 7

I doubt if she will kill you. You may well have to PEEL her OFF the ceiling - but she will be there for you eventually when she has had time to think. Can you imagine what a shock its gonna be, what knee jerk reactions you may get. It may be a good idea to talk to someone else about it, and get them to be there to support you and her.

My daughter did just that to me. After the initial shock, we dealt with it, and I now have a wonderful Grandson of whom I adore, and my daughter eventually found a good man who loved her and my grandson, and all are doing well, plus a little grand daughter this year. So you see - you need your Mum. Just hang on to your hat. ;0)

Answer 8

im lisas daughter i didnt tell my mum i was pregnant cause the same thing but when i told her she was fantastic i thought she would kill me you might be shock just tell your mum im only 14 now and my son is 5 weeks shes the best granny any body could ask for xxxxxx

Answer 9

Phone the pregnancy advisory service NOW. Make an appoinment with your GP ASAP, you need to understand wether or not you are going to carry on with the pregnancy. Does the baby's dad know as its his problem also. Tell your Mum she may be disapointed but she won't kill you honest. Good luck my thoughts are with you xxxxxx

Answer 10

you need to let your mum know. if you cant tell her face to face then try writing her a letter over the phone or by text. you have been adult enough to have sex so now you need to be adult enough to take the consequences. good luck and hope everything works out for the best and remember if you want to keep the baby then dont let anyones force you into an abortion. go on show your mum you have made a mistake but you are adult enough to sort things out if you need to chat you can email me. good luck