He left me with his dad Sept 11 2006 after 36 days of bein' marriage and never heard again after Sept 21, 2006 and I am on six month waiting list for filing dicvore for rejection or anbondment (sorry for mispelling)... so in facin' divorce, what do you expect out it and how did you feel about it?
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2007-03-25 04:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by Country Gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sayin' through dealing through all of this things. I am moving on and everything.. but I am just asking what to expect when it comes to facin' the court or whatever and aftermath...
2007-03-25 04:54:20 · update #1
I know short time... but he just left me into shock and pain... when he did that.. I tried to get him back but he is not here when I need him the most.. so I am not goin' stay home and wait for him to come back...
2007-03-25 05:10:19 · update #2
You will be awarded your divorce on grounds of abdonment. Since there are probably no children, there will be no child custody or support to worry about. Whatever marital property there is will become yours to do whatever you please with. The only problem I see is that any monetary items awarded you will be hard to collect unless he shows up someday and any maritaldebt will become totally yours as the bill collectors can collect from him. You have no choice here but to move on since the loser left you and you cant wait forever for him so youre doing the right thing and moving on with your life. Good luck
2007-03-25 04:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Your lucky you don't have children, this way it is much easier. You also don't have much of a history with him.
I had 7 children when I got divorced, so count your lucky stars.
Even though it hurts, but you will get over it. It took me about 3 years to get over my divorce even though I left him. But I felt bad that I had broken up a family, I had been married 20 years. I should have divorced him after our first child who was born 10 months after we were married.
2007-03-25 04:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that he gets only what he took and everything else is awarded to you. If in the future he should contact you, tell him you have no idea who is he and walk away. Many women out there would not hesitate to give him a swift kick in the butt.
2007-03-25 05:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
does not count the place they get married. US contitution 14th modification provides finished faith and credit clause, so however if it particularly is legal in yet another state, it particularly is going to be legal in the state that they actually stay. as quickly as the record for divorce, it particularly is going to be in the State that they actually stay (ie. Texas), alimony is spousal help. lower back, its based on the dimensions of your marriage, earnings of the events, cohabitation, etc. you may ask for it, courtroom considers all those factors.
2016-10-19 21:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
36 days....WOW.....I would n't call this a marriage, maybe a bad dream. Make sure you file divorce first, then he will be the defendant and have to example his actions. Good Luck
2007-03-25 04:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by cc8462r 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's what spell checker is for, try sounding out your words you don't even come close. I feel your right in going for the divorce, he obviously could care less.
2007-03-25 04:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by wrightbrigade 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
um if you have a kid..
wow.
that sometimes can get out of hand, with the battle for custody. my parents got divorced and it was whacked out and they still like hate each other, but to me its easier getting divorced when you have no kids most of the time
2007-03-25 04:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Lina x3 Pete Wentz is the sex! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Expect a divorce lttr from his lawyer
2007-03-25 04:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by SM 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you are doing the right thing and moving on with life gd luck.
2007-03-25 05:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him ASAP...
Next time, get a good Pre-Nup...
2007-03-25 04:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋