and that is all. I could never fall in love with a woman on the sort of level that I associate with men. Chemically, physically, mentally, I love men. Yet visually I do find some women very attractive and find myself thinking hmm . . how I wouldn't mind conducting a good make out session w/ that lady. Maybe just once in my life, to see what it's like. Afterall, women do know what turn on women. Okay. So I'm just curious as to what you think. I mean I'm not a lesbian, nor bisexual. Bisexuality I define as people who love both sexes in the same sense. As I said, I cannot fall in love with a woman, but I do find them . . well, hot. Ha. So, what does that make me, in your opinion? Just someone very sexual or uhh visually stimulated or WHATTTT? Thank you.
2007-03-25 04:41:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
That's funny!- because I've had thoughts like that as well. I'm married, and definitely not a lesbian. The thought of an actual relationship with a woman doesn't quite feel right to me, because I find my satisfaction in relationships with men. I've never had a lesbian experience, and I probably never will (there's still some things a man can do that a woman can't, of course), because it is just not my preference. But I find that when watching a movie or something that has a woman who is dancing or stripping or something, it seems to turn me on a little-weird, yeah. I think it is just because women can be very sensual, and women's bodies are are just beautiful. Women's bodies are meant to be sexually alluring, and I guess that's why it can have a sexual impact on women as well. It does more for me than seeing a man stripping or dancing. I've told my husband this, and he thinks it's funny- he makes fun of me every time we are watching a movie and a hot girl comes on- then he tells me something like "Now I know why you wanted to rent this movie!" Which isn't true, but I understand what you are saying. You're curious about how it would actually feel to be with a woman, not necessarily meaning you are a lesbian, but you are right, women do know what other women want. But I'd have to say that you are normal, I'm sure every woman has had the thought, even if they never pursue it. It is just natural curiosity.
2007-03-25 05:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Correctly, the definition of bisexual is "a person who is sexually attracted to both men and women" {Oxford Dictionary, considered the standard in current academia}; so I guess that means you. Relax. Something is not maladaptive until it causes you anxiety before the event and guilt after the event. If you were to engage in sexual relations with a female and it affected you in the above way, than that would be maladaptive for you and you'd need to stop of find a way to deal with the anxiety. Otherwise, if it's not a problem for YOU, then it's not a problem.
2007-03-25 04:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by annoyed_with_the_other_answers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because, generally speaking women are much more beautiful, graceful, and sexier than men are. Perhaps you are in tune with the masculine aspect of yourself in this regard. I would venture to guess, in addition, that you are of a higher than average intelligence. I would also guess that you are perceptive, intuitive and employ logic as an ally... Good luck in all your pursuits.
2007-03-25 05:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sereny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience every woman has at least thought about another woman sexually. It's nothing to worry about and something you may wish to explore. You shouldn't try to label yourself. These feelings are totally natural.
2007-03-25 05:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unquestionably, bisexual refers to what a individual is bodily involved in. you have an interest in and inquisitive approximately the two. that's not uncommon. You look to lean greater in the direction of adult adult males for relationships and easily choose to test with women. lower back, not uncommon. besides, of the two genders, women are definitely greater effectual for staring at.
2016-10-19 21:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound hot to me , I think women have it all and agree with you totally, we could check them out together except we can't I am married.
2007-03-25 04:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it makes you very aware of your sexuality and you know what you want. It doesn't make you gay.
2007-03-25 04:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
bicurious, perhaps. don't label yourself though, just have fun with it! I do!
2007-03-25 04:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey whatever sinks your ship..... or no thats a bad one.... om....
2007-03-25 05:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by dr.macgruder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Bicurious". Have fun!
2007-03-25 04:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by janne5011 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋